tahaarat

Incontinence problem

Q: I'm a male and I have a medical problem of urethral discharge incontinence. I can't afford to buy diapers everytime and also there is not too much of leakage, only small amounts. I keep a tissue paper in my underwear to prevent it from soiling. But it always keeps moving from it's place. I tried wrapping around my penis but still it unwraps and moves away. So, everytime when I'm going to toilet, I change my underwear also. Nowadays, I am changing 6-7 underwear per day, which is very very difficult. Please tell me any other suggestion, so that I don't have to change my underwear everytime when I go to the toilet.

Washing a musalla that was touched by a shoe

Q: My mother uses a sandle which she takes to the toilet also. A few times she accidentally stepped on my musallah. I touched the part and it was not wet. With my hand only, I clean the dust without using any water as I am not sure where she exactly stepped on. She also stepped on the musallah with her shoe which she wears when she goes outside. Do I have to wash the musallah? I am currently reading salaah on the same musallah. I have doubts about another musallahs because my nephew urinated on them and the house worker washed them. I dont know if she washed it thrice or not. Can I read salaah on them as she used a detergent?