Various masaail of Nikaah

Q: I am 31 years old and I want to marry but I am unemployed and unable to fulfil wife's duties? Can I stay unmarried?

Q: Is it haraam for the wife to use a good perfume, lipstick and some other makeup to make herself look good? 

Q: Can a husband hold his wife's hand in public?

Q:

1. Should the wife give preference to listening to her shaikh's bayaan or to do what the husband requests at that time.

2. Should the wife give preference to listening to the bayaan of an aalim that is a khalifah of her shaikh or to do what the husband requests at that time.

3. Should a wife give preference to read her wazifas for 1 hour or more when she wakes up around 8am or should she be attending to her husband's needs.

4. Is it permissible for a wife to play nazams and qiraat loudly in the house when she knows it causes a disturbance to the husband?

5. Is is permissible to play qiraat loudly in the house when other members of the family are sleeping?

6. Is it appropriate for the mother of children to let them sleep till 10am or 11am on Sundays and holidays? Should she not be inculcating the habit in them of waking up early and doing some work?

Q: My husband has decided to separate from me for two months. I am staying with my mum. What are the rules of separation. I have tried calling my husband to speak to him. Is this permissible? He doesn’t want to answer. I think he is under the impression that we’re not allowed to have any contact with one another.

Q: My husband is not giving proper time to me or my kids. I think he did a second marriage but whenever I ask him he always lies. He goes out every evening and I know everything about this girl but only nikah is not confirmed, whether he did it or not.

If he did nikah then he is hiding it from me (first wife). He gives us money, food, shelter but he does not spend any time time with me or the kids. Is he sinful for not giving time and love to us?

Q: If a family phones the house of a girl to see the girl for marriage - Is it permissible to read Istikharah to gain insight on whether the boy should be called home to see the girl? Especially since the girl finds these 'samoosa runs' difficult.

Q: Is it permissible to go and see a girl for marriage purposes because one's family strongly recommend her. However in my own heart I know that I will not marry this person. Can one go to see her just to please the family?

Q: Can a wife call her husband by his name?