Various masaail of Nikaah

Condoning a haraam

Q: A Muslim family adopted a female child after birth. Her mother was a Christian. They brought her up as Muslim. Now she is 30 years old and wants to marry a Sikh boy. Adopted parents are in a dilemma trying to persuade her but she is adamant to Mary Sikh boy. They told her they have nothing to do with her. Adopted parents want to know can they go with her to the Registrar's Office and stand as witness and later bring her home with the Sikh boy and members of her immediate family and offer them food then she goes away not to return in future. Is this acceptable or is it haram? Please advise. 

Communicating freely before nikaah

Q: I have found a pious partner الحمد لله, Shukr for the duah Mufti it has proven effective. This lady with whom I am happy to be married. I have already proposed and she has said yes... الله أكبر Now, What am I to do Mufti? I surely have to spend some time with her to get to know her ... (going out with her and maybe having lunch with her?) I have noted this as she has grown fond of me during the little time I have spent with her. How should I go about acquainting myself with her so we can get to know one another better? Within a legal framework.

Living with two wives in one room

Q: My husband has another wife. We all live in one room. In that room is a kitchen and attached bathroom included. My husband divided the days for intercourse. 1 day with me and second day with 2nd wife. Husband does intercourse under the blanket with me on my day and with second wife on 2nd day. During her turn I always watched them over blanket but can not see their body because they were under the blanket.
Another problem is that our husband orders us that me and 2nd wife wrap the towel from naval to knee during house chores in the presence of husband.

1. Is it permissible for husband to do intercourse under the blanket with wife in the presence of other wife?

2. Husband wants us to be topless during house chores and covered (from naval to knee)