Masaail relating to intimacy

Husband unable to consummate the marriage

Q: I am a female married 3 months back and me and my husband love each other a lot Masha Allah. He is kind and supporting. We have not been able to consummate our marriage till today because of the condition called vaginismus, of which I came to know on the very first moment we tried to have intercourse. Please give me some wazeefa's and duas and amals that will help us overcome this condition of mine. I am in great distress. Please tell me a solution.

Oral sex and haraam fantasizing

Q: Kindly shed some light on the following:

  1. Oral sex , with and without a condom? And a man giving his wife oral?
  2. When my wife and I have sexual relations, after foreplay I insert my private part into her vagina and tell her a sexual story while she fondles her private part till she climaxes. Many a times the story revolves around us having sex on the beach while others watch and sometimes we include others in the relationship story. Is this acceptable?