Husband is impotent
Q: My husband hasn't touched me in months. He is impotent for years now. I think he should at least find other ways to be intimate. What are my rights?
Masaail relating to intimacy
Wife refusing to have relations with husband after he slapped her
Q: During a fight a husband slapped his wife on the face, then behaved as if everything is normal. Is she sinning if she refuses to have intimate relationship with him after that?
Husband masturbating the wife
Q:
- If the wife is not fully satisfied after sexual intercourse, will it be permissible for the husband to use his hand and masturbate the wife so that she may be satisfied?
- Is it permissible for the husband to masturbate the wife whilst she is in her menses? Can he touch the private parts with his hands without a covering on her private parts?
- Will ghusl be fardh on the wife after masturbation?
Pious people having relations with their wives
Q: Some people mention that some pious people have relations with their wife with a sheet in between and a small hole. Is this correct?
Making consideration for the wife
Q: If a lady is pregnant, and for the first few months experiences nausea. At times very severe and other times less severe. If the husband approaches the wife to engage in relations when the wife is slightly nauseas and she refuses, the husband gets angry. Is he at fault or is she at fault?
Bathing together
Q: I have one question regarding the relationship between husband and wife. Is it permissible for the husband and wife to have their religious bath (rousal) together?
Wife masturbating the husband
Q: I have two questions. A man like prostate stimulation. He does not want to get involved in the sin like make sexual relationship with any another male. Therefore can his wife give her strokes by prostate massage. Another question is that what about the ruling on licking sexual organs of each partner?
Days in which one should refrain from having relations with one's wife
Q: Is there any particular days mentioned in hadith that you should refrain from having sexual relations with one's wife? If so then specify it.
Understanding the needs of the wife
Q:
- Is it permissible for a women to masturbate if she doesn't get full satisfaction after intercourse with her husband? If not she has to wait a minimum of three days. How does she control herself?
- If the wife needs to have intercourse maybe every third night and the husband says that's too frequent, also at rare times the wife needs the husband sooner. How should she fulfil her need? Because this leads to masturbation.
- If a women has a dream where she is sexually aroused and satisfied. Upon awakening there is no wetness. Is ghusl fardh?
Intimacy with one's wife
Q: Is it permissible for the husband to rub the clitoris (the small sensitive organ above the opening of the urethra, which is homologous to the penis) of his wife until she has sexual climax?