Masaail relating to intimacy

Husband & wife rubbing their private parts against one another with their clothes on during the wife's menses

Q: If a wife is on her menses is it permissible for a wife & husband to rub their private parts against one another with their clothes on. If not, and the husband suspected that it may be impermissible but tells his wife: I think it’s ok I am not sure. They proceed with the act. Does his statement constitute kufr?

Intercourse in the bathroom

Q: I was shocked after reading this fatwa from a whabbi site, can you please validate and answer this question:

Is it permissible for a man to have intercourse with his wife without a cover? Is it permissible to have intercourse in the bathroom? 

Praise be to Allaah.  

Yes, it is permissible for a man to have intercourse with his wife without a cover, and it is also permissible to have intercourse in the bathroom, but that means that he will be going against the Sunnah by not mentioning Allaah beforehand. Perhaps you know that the Sunnah, when a man wants to have intercourse with his wife, is to say, “Bismillaah, Allaahumma jannibna al-Shaytaana wa jannib al-Shaytaana ma razaqtana (In the name of Allaah, O Allaah, keep the Shaytaan away from us and keep the Shaytaan away from that with which You may bless us).” Perhaps you also know that it is not right to mention the name of Allaah in places where you relieve yourself, so how can the one who has intercourse in the bathroom recite this dhikr? Unless he is going to go out, recite this dhikr and then go back in.

I remember reading some masla or a hadith that its discourage to spend unnecessary time in the bathroom / toilets.

Oral sex

Q: 

  1. Is it permissible for a wife to put her husband’s penis in her mouth?
  2. If a wife swallows sperms how can she purify herself because sperms are napaak?

Anal sex

Q: Can a man do sexual intercourse with his wife from her back side (i.e anal sex) ? If not, then if a person ever do so then what is its compensation?

Oral sex

Q:

  1. I understand that oral sex is makrooh. What does this mean? Will I be punished if I engage in this activity?
  2. Is it permissable to kiss or lick private areas (for arousal) without  swallowing any body fluid?

Oral sex

Q: I apologise for the nature of my question. I understand the fatwa relating to oral sex however during relations with my wife is it permissible to stimulate/arouse her by kissing or sucking her clitoris - which is situated above the vagina/urethra and taking care not to get into contact with body fluids?