Suspending the Talaaq

Suspending the talaaq using the words "faarigh ho"

Q: I had a nikkah last month but didn't have rukhsati right now (means girl is at her parents home). Yesterday I had a fight with her and in anger I said "Tum meri tarf se farig ho agar yahi harkatin rakhti ho tu". These were my exact words. I realized that I have done biggest stupidity of my life and suddenly contacted a mufti from web. Described to him the exact situation and words. He said that you have given your wife " Talaq-e-Mullaq" (Conditional Talaq) means when this condition will be met, she will get divorce automatically. Now I am confused that when this condition will be met. Either very next time when she does this or more than once. At that time when I was saying these stupid words to her, I didn't have the intention that very next time she"ll get divorce if she do this, as also clear form my words "Tum meri tarf se farig ho agar yahi harkatin rakhti ho tu" I seek ur help regarding this sensitive issue as me and my wife are totally helpless in this situation.

Suspended talaaq

Q: We are married since last ten years. After four years my husband fights with me and told me if you call me then you have talaaq from me after that I called him by other person and talked with him after that about one year we fights again about the matter that I have called one relative girl and we discussed very much after that that girl calls my husband and told him that your wife fights with me and my husband come home and told me that you called that girl I said no he told me tell me truth if you don't tell me true then our relationship will break for ever after that we are separate now please tell me what is the way if we want to live together?

Suspending the talaaq upon getting in contact with a certain person

Q: My husband told me the day I get into contact with my friend either by message, call or social network, I will automatically get my 3 talaaqs. My question is I urgently need to talk with my friend. Is it possible to talk with her without getting my talaaq? If it is possible please advise how this can be done in my situation?

Suspending the talaaq upon the wife phoning a certain person

Q: I gave a condition to my wife just for one particular day and for a particular phone call that you will be divorced, will be divorced, will be divorced if you call baji (my elder sister). She did not call on that particular day nor did my sister call her on that day. I am living in UAE and had already taken fatwa from aukaaf department and the mufti sahab said "chunkay ap na sirf aik din ki pabandi lagai thi or ap ki biwi na fone ni kiya is liye talaq ni hui, agar ker lati to ho jati or wo future ma bilkul call ker sakti han" After that me and my wife are living normal life. My wife calls her and visits her, but the problem is that I didn't the mufti sahab about three talaqs because I didn't remember at that time. I told him only one talaaq. I take oath that this condition was given for only one particular day. It was clear to my wife also. Also my niyyah was to stop my wife from that particular call by threatening her. It was not meant for divorce. Due to my loneliness I am scared and worried. Please help me.

Husband suspending three talaaqs upon the wife carrying out a certain action

Q: My husband told me if I will call or contact a friend of mine, I will automatically get three talaaqs. I wanted to know if this is true according to Shariah? Will I really get divorced if I call that friend? And if this is true then how can I talk to that friend if I have a serious issue to discuss with her without getting divorced? Please help. I hope i will get an answer soon.

Husband saying "if I ever enter this house then I divorce"

Q: A person was standing in his in-laws house. Some argument with his sister in-law turned into heated debate and in extreme anger he said that if I ever enter this house then I divorce. He did not mention his wife’s name or even not pointed towards her. She was not even present there. He stopped just on that word and when others asked him what he meant he said he was in anger and do not have any intention of saying that. The things normalized after that and he was again happily sat with them. He left his in laws house after a day. Now question is if he ever enters that house, will there be any divorce while he is saying that he did not have such intentions and word slipped out of his mouth.

Suspending talaaq upon speaking a lie

Q: I signed a single talaaq paper but did not inform my wife. Before signing, a few days before, I told my wife not to tell a lie and if she lies from now on, talaaq will happen and she lied again. I did not send the single talaaq notice to her as the address was incorrect on the deed, later while making a correction in the divorce deed we mentioned "triple talaaq" and again I signed this deed and sent the notice to her. All this happened within a month and she was at her parents house, we also had marital relations while she stayed with me in my house. I want to know how many talaaqs happened? If the total count is two (by considering triple talaaq as one) what do I do to take her back as my wife. Today is her 90th day of iddah.