Suspending the Talaaq

Q: Will the talaaq take place if my husband suspends the talaaq upon any action that he does. For example, he says "If I watch porn, then my wife is divorced". Then, in the future, if he does watch any porn, will the talaaq take place? Similarly, what is the Shar'ee ruling if my husband suspends the talaaq upon any action that I do? For example, he says "If you go to your friends house, you will be divorced". If I then at any time in the future go to my friends house, will the talaaq take place?

Q: If a man puts a condition for his wife that if she talks to her friend who was creating problems in their marriage life then she is divorced. The wife did not talk to her but replied to her text message. By doing this, does divorce happen? Please guide.

Q: We are married since last ten years. After four years my husband fights with me and told me if you call me then you have talaaq from me after that I called him by other person and talked with him after that about one year we fights again about the matter that I have called one relative girl and we discussed very much after that that girl calls my husband and told him that your wife fights with me and my husband come home and told me that you called that girl I said no he told me tell me truth if you don't tell me true then our relationship will break for ever after that we are separate now please tell me what is the way if we want to live together?

Q: My husband told me the day I get into contact with my friend either by message, call or social network, I will automatically get my 3 talaaqs. My question is I urgently need to talk with my friend. Is it possible to talk with her without getting my talaaq? If it is possible please advise how this can be done in my situation?

Q: A friend's husband fought with her last night and said to her in anger that" if you ever talk to me again, I will divorce you" will the divorce be effective if she talks to him again?

Q: I gave a condition to my wife just for one particular day and for a particular phone call that you will be divorced, will be divorced, will be divorced if you call baji (my elder sister). She did not call on that particular day nor did my sister call her on that day. I am living in UAE and had already taken fatwa from aukaaf department and the mufti sahab said "chunkay ap na sirf aik din ki pabandi lagai thi or ap ki biwi na fone ni kiya is liye talaq ni hui, agar ker lati to ho jati or wo future ma bilkul call ker sakti han" After that me and my wife are living normal life. My wife calls her and visits her, but the problem is that I didn't the mufti sahab about three talaqs because I didn't remember at that time. I told him only one talaaq. I take oath that this condition was given for only one particular day. It was clear to my wife also. Also my niyyah was to stop my wife from that particular call by threatening her. It was not meant for divorce. Due to my loneliness I am scared and worried. Please help me.

Q: My husband told me if I will call or contact a friend of mine, I will automatically get three talaaqs. I wanted to know if this is true according to Shariah? Will I really get divorced if I call that friend? And if this is true then how can I talk to that friend if I have a serious issue to discuss with her without getting divorced? Please help. I hope i will get an answer soon.

Q: A person was standing in his in-laws house. Some argument with his sister in-law turned into heated debate and in extreme anger he said that if I ever enter this house then I divorce. He did not mention his wife’s name or even not pointed towards her. She was not even present there. He stopped just on that word and when others asked him what he meant he said he was in anger and do not have any intention of saying that. The things normalized after that and he was again happily sat with them. He left his in laws house after a day. Now question is if he ever enters that house, will there be any divorce while he is saying that he did not have such intentions and word slipped out of his mouth.

Q: My question is that today I told to my wife if next time you do same thing, me and you have no relationship. I am asking you is my divorce valid or am I safe?