Those situations where Talaaq does not take place

Waswasa about Talaaq

13 years ago By admin

Q: I have a serious problem with waswasa about talaq. this has turned into a mental problem like obsesive compulsive disorder where these thoughts keep playing in my mind and sometimes I think I say it on my own in my mind. I have no control over it.  Numerous muftis have told me that talaq has to be verbal for it to be valid. After getting fatwas from muftis then I get these thoughts that maybe the mufti did not understand or did not hear the question correctly etc and I go into a state of depression. This is really affecting me. Whether I'm doing good or bad I get these thoughts. I am in constant fear of talaq. Its like almost always playing in my head.  My question is (1) as I said this has become a mental problem and because of this I sometimes say things in my MIND ONLY  which may not be waswasa but because of this mental problem that I have developed  like egs: if I'm on the internet I say in my mind  "if I click on a certain link its  talaq". Then I just ignore what I said in my mind and click on the link and carry on with whatever I'm doing. Does any talaq take place like this? I was told by other muftis that no talaq takes place. Please advice. This waswasa is really affecting me. I love my wife a lot. May Allah bless our marriage ameen.

Wasaawis of Talaaq

13 years ago By admin

Q: I have problem which is really stressing me and affecting my life, I don't know if this is waswas or what but I keep thinking I said a divorce statement, and now I am constantly having doubts and scared that I might have. Sometimes I think I produced a sound that is a divorce statement so then I keep trying to remember in my mind and I am saying the explicit statements in my mind and as I saying them in my mind I am simultaneously making a sound like ta ta ta ta too see if it sounds like a divorce statement. I never form the words and no one understand but me. but I am conscientiously making the ta ta ta ta noise.  The statements only come out as a ta ta ta noise, I am making the  sound only because I want to find out if it sounds like a statement of divorce. I really love my wife and I hope it does not affect marriage please help. I have asked this question before but I want to know if the fact that I am conscientiously making ta ta ta while constantly thinking about statements of divorce affects my marriage. Please help its really affecting me and stressing me. I will be very grateful for your reply.

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