Making a promise to Allah
Q: If I made a promise to Allah and decided to break it. But I didnt break it so is there any punishment for this?
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Making a promise/vow without saying it verbally
Q:
1. If a person promises something to Allah without verbally uttering it, is the promise binding? If he/she does not fulfill the promise will he/she be sinning?
2. If someone says to Allah that I will do such and such, but he/she did not say the word ‘promise’ to Allah and nor did he/she use the word ‘vow’ or ‘oath’. In this case, if the person does not do such and such action, will he/she be sinning?
Difference between an oath and a promise
Q: Is a strong promise the same as an oath? If someone makes a firm intention not to do something (word usage is promise) then if they break the promise do they have to give kafarah?
Waada ka torna
Q: Mera swal ha k mana Allah pak sa wada kya k ma ya kam nai karo ga lekin mana phir wo kam kar deya or ab muja ya kheyal a raha ha k mana ya wada keya tha k agar mana ya kam dobara keya tu islam sa kharij ho jao ga ya muja kheyal a raha ha or muja ya pata nai k mana ya be kaha tha k nai.agar tu kaha hoa tu is ka kaffara kasa pora karu or kya sachi tauba kar ka dobara kalma paru muja ap bataya agar asi bat ka waham ho jai tu kalma par k tauba qabool ho jati ha
Breaking a promise
Q: For some years a religious guilt feeling blocks my mind. Before starting the story I have two cousins and I name them as A and B.
When I was studying in grade six, a gang of boys of about six including those two cousins used to buy and see porn cd's. When this came to my knowledge, cousin B asks me to make a promise that if they show me those videos and if I tell others or our parents then education will not come to me. At that age I had never seen such movies and I touched his hand to promise then only will they show it to me. I had done umrah before all this happened. So after some years they two had a chance to go for umrah and after coming from umrah cousin B told me that their sin is erased by going for umrah and I saw porn after visiting umrah.
In that situation I felt guilty and I think of the expenses of my parents to go for umrah, so I decided to tell my mom. Now my cousin A knows that I told my parents and I forgot whether I asked sorry for breaking my promise.
Now for some years when I am studying that promise (if I told anyone about seeing porn then education will not come) comes infront of my mind and it blocks my mind from concentrating and I feel depressed and I feel like I cant study. Can we make a promise not to see porn and tell it to others for guilt feeling?
Making a promise in one's mind
Q: If someone promises something to Allah in his mind without uttering it verbally, is the promise valid?
Will making a promise in the mind be binding?
Q: If someone makes a promise to Allah in his mind without verbally uttering it, will the promise be binding?
Wa'dah lena ke rishta haraam he
Q: Mere husband se akdin mere jhagre ho gaye. Gusse aur dukh mai maine khudse wada kar liya ke agar mai khud unke pass/karib gayi to humare rishte haram ho jayegi. agar mai unki pass gayi to kya humare rishta haram ho jayegi? Aj mujhe meri galti ki ehsaas ho rahi hai. Mai bohot sarminda hoon. Kyunki aksaath rehte huye ak dusre ki karib ana parti hai mai kya karu mai unki pass jana chahti hoon.
Breaking a promise
Q: How to repent if I break a promise to myself upon Allah? What's the expiation for it?
Committing zina
Q: I have committed a shameful sin and I want you to help me to get over with it. I made a promise to Allah Ta'ala that I won’t masturbate for the following days but instead I had sex (Astaghfirullah Astaghfirullah Astaghfirullah). I could not control myself and I did this shameful act of sin. Now I am feeling guilty and I request you to enlighten me regarding my promise (is it broken or not as I promised not to masturbate but instead had sex) and if my promise is broken what kaffara do I have to make?