Making istikhara before getting a proposal
Q: I want to know, if I like someone but he did not propose for me yet. Can I make istikhara before getting his proposal to know whether my choice is right or not?
Q: I want to know, if I like someone but he did not propose for me yet. Can I make istikhara before getting his proposal to know whether my choice is right or not?
Q: I did istikhara twice. In my first istikhara first I got stuck in the traffic on the bridge and then I reached to the kaabah with my family members to perform tawaf. But in the second istikhara, I saw my self going with family members on the way to perform umrah (I was in abaya with my mom and my family members, brother and dad were in white ehram) and I saw maroon car passing in front of our car and and I was shouting because of the fear that maroon car would hit our car (in istikhara) but it didn't hit and I became happy that we have been saved so is this dream good or not? My heart feelings are good about the person but I don't know the situation seems to be difficult to marry him.
Q: I made istikhara for marriage and had a number of dreams. On the 1st day I dreamt of faeces on my clothes which my abba asked me to remove. The second I don't remember so correctly but I dreamt of a friend removing lice from my hair. The 4th or 5th day I dreamt of the boy's mother and sister correcting me regarding some card and the last day I dreamt of a ring. I am fairly confused though I have a positive feeling. I like to know if these dreams have any meaning regarding my istikhara.
Q: Do Muftis pray Istikharah prayer for fatwas that might lead to schism in Islam or cause hatred to other Muslim sects? Because we are ordered to stay united.
Q: I did istikhara for my son's marriage. Both times the dreams were good, so we decided to go ahead with the proposal, but before we gave a final answer, we were told by someone that the girl had run away with a non-muslim boy and she was forced to come back home. So naturally we backed out. My question is, why did I have positive answers in my istikhara dreams, when the girl was not suitable for my son and we were being deceived by her family?
Q: Main jis se shaadi ki khuwaish karti hun, wahan se ayk bar rishta aya aur that walon ne inkar kar diya. Ab main chahti hun wahan se dobara koshish ko rishte ki. Main ne bohot dua ki hai, main jis se shaadi karna chahti hun us k liye istekhara kiya. Ap plz mujhe details parh k tabeer batain k WO person mere liye sahi hai k main Allah se us ko mangun jaiz rishte k liye.
1st and 2nd day mujhe kuch nazar nahi aya, ya agar Aya b to mukamal tor par yaad ni, main bhool Gai.
3rd day jis person k liye istekhara kiya sirf ussi ka chehra dekha.
4th day poora khuwab yaad nahi bas itna yaad hai k main terrace pe khari hun aur bht c khoobsoorat aurtein jaise koi foreigner hain Jo galli se guzar rahi hain lambey gowns pehne hain WO Sab Kis baraat ko ja ri hain lekin in height bht lambi hai k main jagna terrace pe khari hun wahan tak in ka sar aa ra , phir main kisi se kehti hun k in main aa wizard witch kon hai to kehti hain k Aik ye agey hai aur Aik WO peeche hai Jo gaey wali ki Behan hai Jo peechey se a kar agey wali se milti hai us ka gown green colour ka hota aur main kehti hun kit I khoobsorat hain ye Sab. Baaki yaad nahi.
5th day, mujhe gaey peechey ka yaar nahi main bas itna yaad hai k meri cousin Mujh se skin ki acne pimples k liye cream medicine poochti hai to main us ko WO naam likh k deti hun , pehley pencil se dark likha jata par spellings Galt hote hain aese hi do teen bar likhti hun to spellings Galt hote hain phir likhti hun to medicine ka naam to sahi likha jata par bht halka hota mushkil se nazar aaney wala , aese hi do teen bar likhti hun par halka hota phir gusse main Sara cut kar k pencil se agle page par likhti hun wahan b Ooper pehley se pencil se cutting hoti hai jaise main karti hun aur phir dark likha jata aur main Aik ke baad Aik sari Jo 4 5 naam hain Sab asaani se likh leti hun Na spelling mistake hoti Na halka hota aur main mutmain hoti hun.
6th day phir se same wohi zyada yaar nahi , bus itna yaad hai k meri Kisi se shaadi hui hai , main husband k saath room main ati hun , husband ka chehra Jo dekha real main kabhi ni dekha , phir WO shaks washroom main chala jata phir main dekhti hun k main HUD sexual ho ri hun , akele aur lazat mehsoos kar ri hun akeli , aur husband abhi washroom main hi hai , phir dekha k mujhe lagta k mujhe periods aa gaey hain shayed main lazat to mehsoos karti hun akele sexuality se par bar bar karwat badalti rehti hun k mujhe periods ho gaey hain blood aa ra , neechey bed pe Na lag jaey.
7th day, main ne bht Dua ki aur khuwab main clear ishara k liye wazifa b kiya , but mujhe Jo khuwab aya WO mujhe yaad nahi , main ne Sara din yaad karne ki bht koshish ki par yaad nahi aya siwaey Iss k keh khuwab main us larke ka chehra dekha jis se shaadi karna chahti hun aur apne bhai ka chehra dekha Jo pehley b Iss rishte k khilaaf tha , bus dono ke chehroon ki jhalak yaad ai bas. Main bht pareshan hun , main janti hun Iss main bht rukawatein paida ki Gai hain , app tabeer se batao its good or not , phir rukawatein duaon se b dur kar De ga Allah Insha Allah .