nikaah

Anal sex with wife

Q: I want to know what is the kafara of doing anal sex with your wife when she is in her monthly periods . The husband claims that it was by mistake but the wife said that it was on purpose and this thing happened the second time and the first time both agreed that it was by mistake. I know there is a way in Islam to batch up with your wife if a person does toubah and promises not to do this thing again but what will be the kafarah?

Girl uncovering her hair when a boy comes to propose

Q: We follow a practice in the case of a marriage proposal that first the boys mother comes to see the girl, then both parties make itikhara, if positive, then we go for investigation, meet the boy personally and thereafter when everything appears to be positive, the girl and the boy are shown to each other face to face. My question is that when the girl is shown to the boy after all other steps are done, can she show her hair or uncover her head in front of the boy only with whom she is being proposed to marry?

Brother being a wali in nikaah

Q: During my nikah, one of the witnesses asked me who I wish to take as my representative, and I said my brother. My question is:

1. Is it necessary for the bride to verbally appoint her representative or can her brother, being her wali, act on her behalf without her saying so.

2. If I didnt say my brothers full name does this affect the validity of the nikah. On the marriage certificate my brothers full name is written.

3. If nothing of the dowry amount is paid immediately does this have affect the validity of the nikah?