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Marrying a Christian girl

Q: I am a Muslim guy and I have been in a relationship with a christian girl for a while. I am trying to make this relationship permissible on all aspects and I want to marry her but we are not planning to register this marriage in the court (not legal marriage) just Islamic so that we can be confident that whatever we are doing is not a sin/Haram. We are very serious in this relationship and we want to take it to a legal marriage level but not now since she is still a college student and her parents and not fine with her getting married that early. I believe, I can fulfil all the Islamic marriage requirements from bringing in witnesses to announcing my marriage. It's worth mentioning that we live apart in two different cities, more than 6 hours away from each other but we do see each other every once in a while.

My question is: Is marry this girl according to the Islamic laws permissible?

Boy marrying a girl that is older than him

Q: I'm in love with a girl who is 7 years older than me and she love me as much as I do. We both want to get married and start a life. So to ask her hand for marriage there is one thing I want to know, is it permissible to marry someone older than you like with 7 years age gap? And we both meet each other everyday as she is my teacher and I'm her student, she teaches me. So is it okay?

Intimacy between spouses

Q:

1. Is is necessary to change the bedsheet every time after having sex? As some fluids may come on it.

2. Is is possible for wife to masturbate his husband's penis?

3. What is the best treatment for premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction? Any ayurvedic drinks or any thing according to Islam?

4. Is it permissible for both of us to take shower together ?

Biwi ke lia alag ghar ka intizaam karna

Q: Hum 3 bhai hain meri shadi ho chuki hai 4 saal ho gaye hain meri ek beti hai or meri bivi pragnet hai. Bara bhae cycetric problem mai kabie kam p jata hai kabie chor k ajata hai . Meri salary 37000 hai (jis mai sy 12 hazar ghar pr daita hn 7500 ghar walo ki kameti bharta hn 4 hazar apni cometi bharta hn baki 15 hazar mai apni bivi bacho or kudh k kharchy k lye rakhta hn). choty ki 18hazar hai father mairy na chahty hoye bhi kam p jaty hain 15hazar salary hai.. meri biwi ki maa sy nahi ban paa rahi choti behan sy nahi ban paa rahi . Khany peny ki shikayat karti hai ghar walo k misbehave ki shikayat karti hai ab wo alag ghar ka mutalba kar rahi hai agaer ghar alag nahi to phir mujy chor do azad kar do(meri gunjaesh nahi alag ghar bhi chalaun bivi kehti hai jab tak ghar per kam kar do jub cometi khtm ho jaye phr sy bharha daina march mai cometi finish hai) or 5month baad meri choti behan ki shadi bhi hai. Mai bht paryshan hn ghar alag ki baat karta hn to ghar waly is p razi nahi hain meri shadi ghar walo ki marzi k baghair hoye hai shariat kya kehta hai is bary mai.