nikaah

Father in law touching daughter in law with lust

Q: My question is as follows: One lady had a bad incident which happened some years ago. Her father in law has touched her with bad intentions and kissed her on the forehead. She left from there and did not tell any one. She did not know that some thing wrong happened because they did not have any physical relation (intercourse). After few years some one told her that the marriage broke in Hanafi school. So please let me know what Hanafi fiqh says about ​this? What Shaafee, Maliki, Hanbali fiqh says about this mas'ala? Please reply as soon as possible? If the marriage is not broken in Shaafee school, can she change her hanafi aqeeda and start to follow Shafaee aqeeda?

Foreplay

Q: I want to ask you a question about foreplay in Islam .Please give me a brief answer with the reference of hadith as soon as possible.

Waalidayn se mashwara karna nikaah ke baare me

Q: Mujhy ik masla baayan karna tha, masla meri shadi ka ha, ik larky k sath meri razamandi, meri khawsih b ha k meri us sy shadi ho, or us ki taraf b yhi mamla ha, us k ghar waly raazi hain, ab masla yh ha koi rasta nazar nai araha k kis tarah apny ghar walo us k bary m batao k wo rishta lana chahta ha, yh koi esa zariya paida ho jis s asani ho, meri rehnumai karein bhot zada pereshan ho, Allah n chah tu ghar waly raazi hojayn gy, lkn koi zariya paida ho jis s wo rishta ly k asky ghar tk, Allah ka shukar ha meri yh soch nai ha k khuda na khausta maa baap k khilaf ja k shadi karo us s, maa baap ki raza mandi s hi shadi karna chahti ho lkn koi rasta smjh nai araha, mujhy in sb kamo ki asani k lye koi wazifa bta dein.

Consulting one's family regarding a proposal

Q: My family had got a proposal for me and I was interested but with no solid reason my father refused. He said things like, the boy's family were living far away, and also he is 10 years older then me. I did istikhara many times and I got no negative signs. I do pray daily to turn my heart away from this but it is uncontrollable now. I want advice whether I should ask my family to consider it. I'm afraid that once it mustn't get refused for a reason that is not valid.