Q: Mei kisi se 5 year se bahut piyar karti ho wo bhi bahut karte he. Wo mere mamu ka beta he. Mamu ki taraf se 2 baar rishta bhi aya tha but jab hamare ghar wale agree nahi hoa but ab mamu ko paralise ho gaya hai and mumani ko mei bilkul nahi pasand. Mumani uski shadi kahi aur kara rahi hai hum dono bahut piyar karte he hamne ishtekara bhi karaya hai wo bhi bahut acha aya hai. Aap mufti sahab koi wazifa bataiye jisse mumani ke dil me ajai.
Q:
1. Which invitation is best in Islam for wedding- oral or written?
2. Is there a hadith that nikaah should be done after asr prayer?
3. Is it allowed in Islam to have separate function called Henna (mehndi) on previous day of nikaah for girls?
4. Can a wealthy man spend more on walima which will be done subsequent to the day of nikaah?
5. Is it permissible in Islam for a man and woman to suck or lick private parts of each other after nikaah?
Q: Kaafi arse se mere do dosto nay mujsay kaha tha ke main pata karoon ek shor apni bivi ke nipals apnay moon main le sakta hai ya nahi islam main. Kitni gunjaish hai jo ko us main doodh nahi hai. Please jawab batain.
Q: I have been engaged for almost 1 year and me and him want to get married so there will be no more haram. His family is okay with it but my parents don't let me marry him just because he is Arab and I am Turkish. They have no Islamic reason and they don't want to pray and know nothing about Islam so it is not normal for them to marry at this age. So I heard if the father doesn't have Islamic reason then it passes to my brother to be my witness and then passes to uncle and if they both don't agree then an imam can be my witness is it true? And I also heard a man's parents don't need to know about the marriage only women's parents. I know no one of my family would agree because they aren't aware with anything about Islam and they don't find it normal so I was wondering can the imam from the mosque be my witness since my family don't have any Islamic reason, and my parents don't know about the marriage?
Q: There is a man who is in love with me but he is married with 3 kids. He does not want to tell his wife about us because he says it will be problem. But he loves me and wants to make nikaah with me. What should I do? Please advise.
Q: I come from a Gujrati speaking family. I wish to marry a Urdu boy. This displeases my parents as they only want a Gujrati boy for me. There only reason being that he is Urdu. He is of good character and Islamic values. Would it be right for me to go against there wishes and marry this boy?
Q: Main ye janna chahta hu ke ek larka ek larki apni marzi se bagair wali ke nikah krsakte hai pr hamare nabi ki hadees hai jisne bagair wali ke nikah kia uska nikah batil hai or agr maulana se pucho toh wo kehte hai ke ye hadees nabaligh ke liye hai main ye janna chahta hu ki ispe kese yaqeen kiya jaye ki ye hadees nabaligh ke liye hai mera matlab koi hadees ho iski ya kuch or jawab zarur dijiyega.
Q: Mera mufti sahib se ye sawal ha ke ager mard kisi bhi sorat talaq nahi deta na he khula pe razi hota ha to orat kya kary?
Q: Me last five se kisi ku bht piyar karti ho. Aajtak himmat nahi hoi kisi ko batane ki mjhe sirf jitna janna h ki uske dil me kya h aur hum dono qureshi h ap koi aisa wazifa btaiye jisse meri pareshani ka rasta mil jai jo samne se uski side se rishta ajai.
Q: I belong to a sunni family. Can I get married with a boy who belongs to Sayed (Ahle tashii) family?