nikaah

Superstitious beliefs with regards to marriage

Q: I got a marriage proposal which I wasn’t sure about so my uncle decided to have hisab done. I didn’t know it was haram then but it came back saying the marriage won’t be good for me and I will ultimately marry someone from another country. I have said yes to the proposal but wondering now if I should believe and listen to what the hisab said? Is hisab real? I am doing istikhara but haven’t had a answer yet.

Marrying a girl to give her a better life to please Allah

Q: I am in love with one of my colleagues and I want to marry her but what makes me reluctant is that she had a boyfriend and had sex with him in this hope that he will later marry her which unfortunately didn't happen. Now she is hopeless about her future and I think I can help her but I am reluctant as I said. I want to ask if I marry her with intention of making her life better, will this act please Allah and will He reward me greatly?

Kya larke ke lia wali muqarrar karna zuroori he?

Q: Mere shadi agle mahine mere khala (maternal aunt) ki beti se he. Mere walid ka inteqal hogaya, hamare ghar me mere ammi, mera bhai (17 years), meri bahen (23 years) he. Hamare paternal uncles (taya, chacha) se contact nahi he, hamare mamu hamse baat nahi karre kyunki hamne unki beti se shadi karne se inkaar kardiya tha.

1. What is the meaning of wali and witness while performing nikah?

2. Who can be my wali and witness?

3. Nikah ke waqt kya me apne ammi ko wali bana sakta ho?

4. Nikah ke waqt kya me apne susre (father in law, khalu) ko witness bana sakta ho?

5. Kya mera bhai (17 years age) witness ban sakta he?

6. Kya mai witness aise musalman ko banasakta ho jo mera rishtedaar he magar namaz kabhi kabhi padta he aur durga jata he?

7. Kya Qazi sahab witness bansakte he?

8. Kya meri dulhan ke gawah aur mere gawah wo hi log hosakte he jo mere he?

9. Kya wali bhi witness hosakta he?