talaaq

Talaaq ko mu'allaq karna

Q: Kuch din pehle mere shohar ne mjh pr aik shart lagai th talaq ki agr tm ne kbh mjhe dhoka dia mtlab merr hoty huy kisi k sath afair kia to tmhe 3 talaq ho ge...thore din bd ma main ne un se pocha ap ki nazar ma dhoka kia hota h or wo jo alfaz ap ne shirt k kahe thy k ye krne se tmhe 3 talaq ho ge wo kon se shart th k kia krne se mjhe talaq ho ge wo kis kam ka kaha tha k agr ma ye kam krun ge to ap ka or mera rishta khatam ho jaye ga..to unho ne bagair sochy smjhe kehty gaye apne koi bt apni kisi frnd se share ni krna ye bh dhoka h kisi gair mard se bila waja bat ni krna ye bh dhoka ha or ye bh shart h meri... kisi se bilkul qareb khare ho k bt ni krna ye bh shart ma ata h or etc.lekin ksi bh shirt k sath talaq ka lafz ni lagaya bus ye kaha k ye bh shirt ha wo bh shirt h..jb k bd ma unho ne kaha k mri shart sirf usi bt pe th k mre hoty huy ksi k sath afair ni krna warna 3 talaq ho ge bus baqi jo bh ma me kaha us ma talaq ki shart ni th or na he mri niyat ma tha to mera sawal ye ha k agr ma apni ksi dost se bt krun ya ksi gair mard se bt krun to talaq waqae ho ge?jb k un ki niyat ma ni tha unho ne mera ye sawal pochne pr k konsi bt pr ap ne 3 talaq ka kaha tha k kia krne se or ks shart se mjhe talaq ha...is k jawab pr kaha mri ye shart h wo shart h or etc ..jb k un ki ye sb shartein ni th...or na he unho ne ksi shart k agy ye lagaya k agr gair mard se bt ki to talaq ya apni ksi dost se bt ki to talaq...bus ye kaha tha k mri yeh bh shart h or wo bh shart h or bad ma halfia kaha k mri shart sirf usi pr h k kisi k sath affair ni krna baqi ksi bt pr ni

Fear of zihaar

Q: I am very tensed about a situation. I was having an argument with my wife and in anger I wanted to call her "Mother F______", but my tongue got stuck and instead I uttered the word "Mother" from my mouth. Have I committed "Zihar" though my intentions were not to call my wife "Mother". Should I now need to atone by freeing a slave, or observe fast, or serve food to needy people? My intentions were not to call my wife this.

Shohar biwi ku khitaab karne beghair "mai tume talaq dena" kehna

Q: Mera sawal ye hai k ek din mai facebook use kr rahe thi us mai ek actor ki picture ai mainay apnay husbend se bola yeh kon hy tou mere husbend ko us actor ka naam nh pata lekin drama ka ek dialogues bola "mai tenu talaq dena" un k mind mai woh actor actress thay mai bhi pass baithi tou is dialogues se hamaray nikah pr asr tou nh para hoga na?

Mother insisting on daughter to get a divorce from her husband

Q: I am a 25 year old Sunni Muslim girl. My father chose a boy for me and I got married two months back but my mother doesn't like the groom from day one because he is financially unstable and she is kind of possessive towards me. Now she wants that I should take a divorce and if I don't take a divorce, she will break all her relations with me. I don't have much of a problem with him and I m happy with him. I am in a dilemma, what should I do? I love both of them and I don't want to lose either my husband nor my mother.