talaaq

Khalwat ke bad teen talaaq

Q: Kaafi arsa pehlay aik larkay ka nikah kisi choti umer ki larki say howa larkay ki umer 30 sal larki ki umer 12 ( baligh) sal, rokhsti na hoi k larki ki umer ziada ho gi to rokhsti kar dain gay, aur nikah ka b mohala daron ko ilam na tha, is doran larka larki ko ghar bolata raha aur aik kamray m un ki mulaqat hoti thi mulaqat k doran dono ki sharmgahain aik dosray say touch hoin aur dakhool say pehlay hi mada mani b kharaj howa, laikan dono is dar say k koi kamray m aa na jay saray kapray nai utaartay thay kamray m aanay k 2 raastay thay aik m darwaza lga tha aik m sirf parda tha koi b ba asani andar a sakta tha, larka samjta tha k wo larki say us waqat ba asani hambistry kar sakta hay jab ghar m koi na ho laikan aisa moqa nai mila, agar larki ki awaz paida ho jati to bohat beizti hoti q k hambistry ki ijazat na thi, mojooda soortay haal m larkay ka poora irada tha hambistry ka, k wo ahista ahista dakhool kar lay ta k awaz paida na ho laikan wo nai kar ska , q k dakhool say pehlay mada mani kharaj ho jata tha, baad m larki nay larkay ko majboor kiya k usay talaq day , talaq ho gai, talaq k alfaaz ye thay m tohain talaq daita hon, m tomhain talaq daita hon, m tomhain talaq daita hon, ab larki bari ho gai hay wo dobara nikah karna chahtay hain wo dobara nikah kar saktay hain ke nahi?

Suspending the talaaq using the words "faarigh ho"

Q: I had a nikkah last month but didn't have rukhsati right now (means girl is at her parents home). Yesterday I had a fight with her and in anger I said "Tum meri tarf se farig ho agar yahi harkatin rakhti ho tu". These were my exact words. I realized that I have done biggest stupidity of my life and suddenly contacted a mufti from web. Described to him the exact situation and words. He said that you have given your wife " Talaq-e-Mullaq" (Conditional Talaq) means when this condition will be met, she will get divorce automatically. Now I am confused that when this condition will be met. Either very next time when she does this or more than once. At that time when I was saying these stupid words to her, I didn't have the intention that very next time she"ll get divorce if she do this, as also clear form my words "Tum meri tarf se farig ho agar yahi harkatin rakhti ho tu" I seek ur help regarding this sensitive issue as me and my wife are totally helpless in this situation.

Parents forcing the son to divorce his wife

Q: Prophet Ibrahim (Alayhi Salaam) told Ishmaal (Alayhi Salaam) to divorce his wife. Ishmael (Alayhi Salaam) did. My parents demand the same. My wife prays and wears hijab and is from a different country from me. My parents want me to marry women who are more cultural and don't wear hijab, since none of their 4 daughters/my sisters wear hijab. To what level of authority do parents have?

Suspended talaaq

Q: We are married since last ten years. After four years my husband fights with me and told me if you call me then you have talaaq from me after that I called him by other person and talked with him after that about one year we fights again about the matter that I have called one relative girl and we discussed very much after that that girl calls my husband and told him that your wife fights with me and my husband come home and told me that you called that girl I said no he told me tell me truth if you don't tell me true then our relationship will break for ever after that we are separate now please tell me what is the way if we want to live together?

Talaaq via whatsapp

Q: My wife and I have a problem. I was arrested as my tenant was dealing in drugs, when the cops came to my place they found a dagga plant on my property and arrested me as well. This happened while my wife was in durban. While I was kept in a holding cell I made contact with a friend who came to my assistance. She when home and secured my house and came back to the station with my ID and proof of residence. This lady lives in durban and was on her way to the airport when i called her. She had checked out from her accommodation and missed her flight. She then stayed at my house for 1 night while I was locked away. On 4 Jan I was released. My wife returned to JHB on 5 Jan. i was not given a chance to explain what happened. her parents took her away and said we are separated. On 9 Jan my wife said that she is coming home, however they came with cops to take all her belongings away. I was upset and under high amounts of stress as they took both cars and left me stranded. In the days to follow my wife and i where messaging each other via watsapp. She then made statements that i was a fraudster, drug dealer, that i cheated on her which is not true. This enraged me as i could not believe what was happening, so over watsapp i told her that if thats the person i think i am then theres the first Talaaq (i also spelt it talaat) Since then her parents consulted a maulana and now i get news that we are divorced. I never spoke to any maulana and was not even given a chance to explain anything. I love my wife and I have done everything i could for her. I know that she is hurt due to the events that took place on 2 Jan The tenant got arrested again and i got word from the arrested officer that he will not get bail as he got arrested while he was on bail. I had to appear in court yesterday for my charge. My case was dropped as I called the cops on my tenant. What do I do as I dont believe we are divorced. I love my wife and do not want a divorce.

Wife having affairs with other men

Q: I have been married for fourteen years. I have three daughter. For the past seven years my wife had affairs with different men and I tried every time to speak to her to repent but the affairs just happen over and over year after year. As a result of this my life been constant worry with no peace of mind. It is because I loved her so much I just tried to save the marriage every time. I have my brother and my parents here to stop this marriage but in my heart I still love her. How do I occupy my mind through this talaaq process because it feels like I am scared but I don't want to go back to this life. As I know myself I will try to go back and in past that is how it happen over and over. I forgave her but her affairs never stop. I gave her one talaaq seven years back and I wanted to know if I can give her the rest two talaaqs not in anger in any way, but just so that I can't go back to that life.

Talaaq ke baare me sawaal

Q: My question is that I was having some discussion with my husband but when he came towards me then I pretend to go downstairs because I was on the stairs then my husband said (tumhein kaya howa ha Ma ba kuch nahi phir kaha Acha aisay hi rehna ha tu apna intazam karo Ma iss kich kich matlab larai Yani fight sy thang hon bolay tumhari b setting Ho jaiya gi or meri Ma na bola intazam karo ghussay sa Ma na bola Mary husband bolay kaya issi tarha hi zindgi guzarni ha Ma itni mehnat kerta hon aisa kuch bola Mary husband ny kaha k iger rehna ha tu teek tarha Ho ker rahu Ma Na kaha Ma na kuch nahi kaha Ma chup Ho ker khari hon tu Mary husband ny jawab diya tu Ma na b tumhein kuch nahi kaha please answer me iss sa rishta per kuch Asar hota ha? I am worried.