Jannah

Q: I saw a video where a shaykh was saying that you may marry the person you loved in Jannah. 

If that person was already married to someone else in dunya, can you still marry that person in Jannah? 

Q: I get so many negative thoughts in my mind about Allah. When I see how my husband is attracted towards other girls and some girls in public also getting attracted towards him, I feel it's not his fault and that is how Allah has created men. I feel hurt when he gets attracted towards other girls and acting weirdly with them. I know Allah has created men like this. Even if I am the best wife towards him he will still be attracted towards others and he has the right to marry another woman. Even if we have the best relationship it is not a bad thing if he marries another. Allah has given men this right and didn't care about how we will feel.

How cruel is this that in this world we women have to suffer this much for men's behavior and we are reading in Quran and hadith that our reward in jannah is less than men. They are going to have many other women and we will not feel bad about this. Allah has made women depended on these creatures which are called "men". I can logically convince my mind this is what Allah's hiqmah is. He is the all knower and He doesn't oppress anyone but my love for Allah diminishes. I cannot force myself to love Allah. So my prayers are empty.

I feel like it's inhuman to a woman, allowing men to have physical relation with their slave girls, having more than one wife and after all these hardships we will get less than men in jannah. I don't want to loose my iman and I don't know if these things are making me kafir or not. I just have to speak my heart out and I don't want to loose iman. This is why I am writing to you. 

Q: I read who received a distorted version of Islam will be among the people of the fatrah. So can we say that Qadyanis will go to Jannah because can we say that they received a distorted version of Islam? Personally I don’t think so they will. What about a person who was a non Muslim before and someone told him about Qadyaniyat and not Islam and he believed in that, will he go to jannah?

Q: Can a non-Muslim who does good to people go to heaven? He or she might treat people with respect and give alms but can they go to heaven or do they have to take their shahaada to go to Jannah?

Q: Can women meet Prophets and Sahaabah in jannah? 

Q: If a woman wants to marry some other person in janna and she do not want to marry her husband which she was along with him in world, is it possible or she can only marry her husband?

Q: In Islam we can't eat pork because it is unlawful... well in jannat are we going to be allowed to eat pork because everything that has been unlawful on earth will be made lawful in jannah right? For example, woman can't dress up in nude clothing in this world but in the hereafter they will be allowed right? So pork will be allowed too in jannah right? 

Q:

1. Will husband and wife be together in jannah?

2. Which husband will the wife be with if she had more than one husband?

Q: Will a person be able to marry a person in paradise (jannah) who is married to someone else in this world?

Q: Will a man have two worldly wives in jannah? Can’t he have more wives from the world?