aqaaid

Calling oneself a disbeliever

Q: Please give me the ruling regarding the following: 

Question: In order to convince someone of something, someone said, for example, "So-and-so does not have a car. May I be a disbeliever if he has!" Is it considered to be an oath?

Answer: There are two rulings on this issue:

1. If one says, "So-and-so does not have a car. May I be a disbeliever if he has," the relevant person becomes a disbeliever whether that person has a car or not. One's intention does not count. That is, it is not valid.

2. If one utters something that causes disbelief with the intention of taking an oath, he is considered to have taken an oath. However, such an oath is not a Muslim's oath.

Bad thoughts of Allah Ta'ala

Q: I have a serious problem of blasphemous abusive words that comes frequently for Allah. Now I am just ignoring it but before I didnt know how to deal with them. A few years back, I used to correct those thoughts and repeat within my mind, by saying that Allah is great. And then I used to say blasphemy words to shaitan that you are this..... (bad and vulgar words). Sometime ago I was talking to my relative, and all of a sudden when I was correcting her I spoke those bad words for Allah. Since then I am very upset and have feeling remorse. Sometimes this thought comes that I am actually thinking these words on purpose.

Rejecting the Sunnat of Nikaah

Q: There's a thing that is bothering me so much. A friend of mine hates marriage. Once there was a chart in my college that listed the sunnahs of Ambiya, one of them was nikah. She didn't believe that it was a sunnah, we told her that it was. Afterwards she jokingly said that she will cut this off the chart. Is this kufr? If this is indeed kufr and takes her out of the fold of Islam, she is going to be super offended and likely to throw a tantrum because nowadays people don't even know things that are kufr. How do I explain this to her?

Committing oneself to following one Imaam

Q: We respect the four imams and we follow the teachings of Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) and Quran. There are very mild differences in Namaz as said by the 4 imams with their proofs in hadith. Now I pray without rafadayn and my hands are not on my chest while standing. So does it mean that I'm praying the wrong way, because I see in Saudi Arabia they do rafadayn and have hands on chest. Please help me and make my salah better.

Ilm-e-nujoom owr Ilm-e-ghaib

Q: Taqreeban 2 saal pahle meri ek cousin k zariye ek aise shaks se baat hui jo ilm e najoom janta tha, us ne mujhe btaya ke mere father pe kisi ne kaala ilm krwaya hy jo ke un ki jaan lega. ye b btaya k mere mangetar galat kaamo men lage hue hen or un ki nature bht kharb hai matlb k ayaash hai pr ye k use shadi k bad mera nasib kharb hoga or hmri shadi ek saal tk chal sakegi or shadi k bad b mere mangetr larkyon k peeche honge or hmri shadi k foran bad mere father xpire hojaenge. Ye baten sun k mujhe bht dukh hua men tension men aa k mangetr se bat ki or rishta khatm krne ko kaha lekin Allah ko ye manzoor na tha hmri shadi hui or Allahmdulillah ek hogya hy shadi ko sb kuch thek hy aisa kuch nahi hua. Ab itne dino k bad phr se us cousin ne mujhe btaya k wo shaks mujh se bat krna chahta hy or kuch btana chahta hai, men kia kron mujhe kuch samjh nahi aarha. mujhe tension ho rhi hy mera Allah pe pora bharosa hai..

Is masle k bare men kuch btaen Quran o hadith men in logon ki kia ahmyat hai, gaib ka ilm Allah k pas hai phr in ko kahan se pata chalti hn ye baten.. In bat men ktni sachai hy. Men kon sa wazifa kron k hm sb aise shar se or kisi nuqsan se mahfooz rahen. Plz explain kren kia aisa kuch sach men hota hy ilm e najoom ya sitaron ka ilm ya ilm e rsal wagera?