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Marital problems

Q: I want to ask if it is permissible for husband to talk and chat with his cousins daughter who is around 21 year? They talk several times' daily and he assure me that he cant marry her but still Im worried as i have read his conversations and he asks for her pics and want to talk on phone with her. He also want to open academy and want her to work as a teacher there as she is looking for a job. We live abroad, but i don't like this frequent chatting between them. So i want to know, is this 'friendship' a sin and haraam for my husband? How should I confront him?

Father insulting husband

Q: I am a Muslim woman and I would like to know in Islam if a father hits his daughter who is married without valid reason and my husband tells him to stop with respect and he then hits my husband and uses excessive vulgar languages in the open public.

I, the daughter have held my dads clothes to stop him from going to hit my husband but he continued to slap me wildly infront of many people.

He does not like my husband because my husband is not well to do and is very simple and calm . He has a quite nature and never argues with my parents from the time I have been married . On a daily basis my father insults him tries to put him down infront of other people uses languages to him infront of me all because in life my dad out of his own will had paid for my hospital bills. But that was on his own will as my husband could not afford it and I have agreed that he couldn't afford a private hospital rather government which I was very happy to go to.

He insults my husbands parents and put them to value infront of many people . He shows off to people what my husbands parents position is and disgraces them all the time .

My father is very nice but his attitude and pride of money is very bad . If he pays anything out of his own will for me or my children he will insult and tell the public he paid for that and he says it in such a way that makes my husband down in the public eye.

I am a very blessed woman to have such a great husband . Allah has given me the best man as my partner and I dislike when I see him getting insulted . I cannot take it anymore and I do not know what to do . The only thing I have asked my father is to guide my husband in business but my father rules his life and wants to fight for everything.

Allah Ta'ala ki rahmat se mayoos ne hona

Q: My husband is very ill and the doctor has said that he has very less time to live. Being a Muslim me and my family have trust in Allah and we are praying a lot and making dua for his long and healthy life. Allah ki zaat se mayus nhi ho sakte. Seeking help from Allah.. pr waswase atae hai ki shayad kch thek na ho.. Imaan pe layam hun ar Allah se shifa ki dua krti hun pr kabhi kabhi dil bht bechain hota hai. Allah se dua krti hun ki vo koi ishara de ki uski madad hai mere sath.. Ap btayen ki kya kru.. waswase imaan kamzor krne lagte hai jabki mai apne Allah pe yakeen rkhte hue is baat pe yakeen rkhti hun ki vo mere shauhar ko shifa zrur dega kyuki vo hi zindagi ar maut ka malik hai.