Q: Humari love marriage hui hai aur shaadi se pehle mere shohar ne mujhse bohat juth bol bol kar shadi ki hai aur humra zara si ladai na ho to mujhe ghar se chale Jane ko bolte hai ya fir talak lene ki kehte hai meri beti jo teen saal ki hai uska aur mera thik se kharcha uthane ko bhi tayar nahi hai na to namaz parne jate hai aur ab to satte me bhi pese lagane lagge hai. Me kya karu? Please mujhe bate. Me bohat pareshan hu.
Q: My sister has been in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for the past 7 years. Her husband recently asked her to leave and wants nothing to do with her. She left with her 3 children. Now he refuses to give her talaq out of spite and wanting to maintain control of her. Does the fact that he asked her to leave constitute a valid talaaq?
Q: I am writing some sentences of my husband which he just spoke 1 and 2 days later. Please guide me. Is there any effect with these on marriage? First day having issue arguing each other he said (aisi biwi nahi chahiya, kehnay lagay iger rehna ha tu live happily other wise do separate. Say your parents you are not happy with this guy kyn ke kaafi time sa hamari larayi Ho rahi ha. Wo kehty mujy samaj mein nahi as araha ha ke tum mary sath reh kyn rahi hon ja k apni maa k pass rahu meri Jaan churu bahsk do mujy etc etc) Please guide me.
Q: Mere shauhar ne mujhe kaha ke jaa main tujhe azaadi deta ho tu dusri shaadi karle. Tu apni maa ke ghr chali jaa. Jaa main tujhe azaadi deta ho. Kya yeh jumle se talak hojaati hai aur kya isme niyat dekhi jaati hai aur agr talak hogy hai tu nikah dubara kis tarah hoga halala karna hoga ya phir aese hi nakah hojaati hai. Please zara gaur se bataye aur jaldi.
Q: If your Husband sent a message to your parents saying come fetch your daughter and her things and in another part of the message he said to your family that they broke a marriage up. Does a divorce fall?
Q: What is the definition of talaaq? Can a person judge a talaaq on me if I did not have the intention of giving a talaaq? In other words. Can another person decide what was in my thoughts and in my heart when I said something and judge it to be a talaaq, even though I had no such intention?
Q: My question is if a husband and wife argue, then the husband says if you don't look after my kids u go. What does it mean? Is this divorce words or just husband said in anger after he got normal love kids and wife he said if I say something to you in anger, don't take it serious. I didn't mean it because I am suffering depression and anxiety. Please guide me.
Q: I said to my wife weeks ago: "I have to go" intending a kinaya divorce and she said "are you serious" and I said "yes". Days later because I was unsure whether it took place and I wanted to be sure and I said alone in a room but addressing her in my heart "I intended a kinaya divorce. You are free" So what took place now? Kinaya or Sareeh and how many times?
Q: My husband said to me via whatsapp messenger. I am sending you his whole message kindly read and guide me ''u r free..I will find meher n pay you. It is useless to waste your time now.. You won't hear from me now.. Ur free go anywhere u r free ur free u r free.. " and now he is not ready to admit it. He is saying my niyat was totally different and mene koi talaaq nahi di. Kindly guide with Quraan ayat or hadith.
Q:
1) When I said things like "if until then this doesn't change, I go and leave you" , really intending to leave then and divorce, and no change took place until that time limit, does a kinaya divorce take place or a sarih? This happened many times. I didn't know that ruling back than.
2) I really left her some weeks ago with a real intended kinaya divorce upon which she asked " are you serious? And I said "yes". The following days I talked to some persons and said things like "I left her, I divorced her, my ex-wife, I dont want her back..." ....while I had thoughts like "you divorced again by that....its over anyway", but didn't care because I really was thinking it's completely over anyway. So I learned in the hanafi school that if you follow a kinaya with a clear sarih then both come into effect. But the contract broke somehow with the kinaya divorce before anyway. So how to understand this? Is following a kinaya with sarih meant that it happens in the same sentence or sitting? Is this all relevant anyway if in question 1) contract broke before.
3) If you say unintentionally words to yourself that pop in mind like "triple talaq", is that a Problem? Like a song comes to your head and you unintentionally utter the words.
4) If in the aqd it was agreed that wife can any time make use of divorcing right "khula"......does that come in effect if wife for example said like:" if until then this doesnt change we separate " and both agree but no mention of khula ? We wish to reconcile with a new aqd. Is this after these scenarios still possible?