ambiguous words of talaaq

Husband saying "I am ending it now"

Q: In reference to the context of ending the marriage, my husband said to me these words, "I am ending it now. I will send you legal papers each month (3 months), give you dower money and Rs. 10000 each month for my son. Only thing between you and me is our son if you allow. You have your life independent in every way. Send me your address, if you will not send me address then I will get it my self". Now he says that I said these words and said I will send you divorce but I did not act upon accordingly. Can you please guide me whether these words count towards my divorce by my husband or not. I am much confused as the words show his intention to send me divorce.

Husband telling the wife "when you were my wife"

Q: I write to you dear Mufti Saheb on behalf of a close family relative. The situation is regarding Talaaq. Some time ago he whilst having a discussion with his wife mentioned to her: "when you were my wife" I do not know in what context either jokingly or what but he does not recall the context but did not intend divorce, he has told her straight after this incident that if divorce had fallen he revokes it. Secondly, recently he had a heated argument with his wife in the car and told her angrily get out of the car and he recalls telling her numerous times if it would make you happy why don't you leave? However they are extremely happy currently and he would like to know what is the status with talaaq falling?

Husband telling the wife to leave

Q: I am writing to you with the deep hope to solve a problem that is affecting my life. I married a man from Saudi Arabia, a man I really loved with all my heart. Sadly we had problems because basically our views to see marriage life was very different but in spite of that I never thought to divorce from him. We had a silly argument but after that he chose to divorce. He didn't tell me "talaq" directly but he told me clearly he didn't wish to continue his life with me and that night he asked me to prepare my bags and leave. I didn't and I was hoping with days he could change his mind. After three/four days he told me again about his willing to divorce and that it was the best thing because we didn't match and he wished a new life with another woman more similar to his needs. The same night we had another argument and he talked to me again about his wish to divorce. He bought the tickets for the flight and he forced me to prepare my bags. I didn't want to leave, first because I loved him and his kids and also it was night and it was Ramadhaan. So I asked a friend to come and pick me up to go to the airport. I want to be clear saying it has been one of the worst nights of my life. He has been very cruel and unpolite. Before going away I said to him to tell me"talaaq" so we could be divorced, because his intentions were clear, and I didn't want to come back with a no clear situation. Also, I reverted to Islam few months before that and it wasn't very clear for me the talaq matter. After that my ex-husband didn't finish paying my mahr yet because he say that I "asked" the divorce ,also he asked me back the marriage ring. I want to understand if is true he doesn't have to pay my mahr and if he can ask the ring back. The payment of mahr wasn't in case of divorce. He was supposed to pay it soon after marriage but he didn't. I need an honest advice.

Showhar "tum azaad ho or me bi azaad hu" kehna

Q: My question is my husband and I have no issues on anything. He just had his dinner and I was taking mine after a long vacation. He went to work so I asked him did you read namaaz today at work then he replied to me (tum azad ho or ma bi azad hon, mujy nahi pasand ya kyn ma ghar per tumhein di khanay ka liya namaz perta hon. He said ma na palay b kaha tha k muj sa mat poucha karo ma nahi chahta k kisi ko pata cha lay meri namaz ka he said na tum maray mamolat mein Bolo na ma tumhary tu I think life achi guzar jaiya gi. I asked ab ya kaya baat thi he said ma na just general bat ki ha phir ma chup ho gayi after few mins he said tumhein kaya howa ha tumhary dimagh mein sirf wohi bat hoti ha. Me baat kaya ker raha hon tumhary mind mein ha hi fat ur he said Aik tu mind ki baat hoti ha na k maray mind mein koi aisi bat ho Mary tu mind mein dur dur tk aisi koi baat nahi so I told u all situation mufti sahib actually I stand myself very toughly boz last few years back my life had different kind of things so am very much sensitive. If I heard this kind of word I thought straight away about other things as my husband explained everything, so the purpose of email is kaya iss sa koi faraq para ha relation per jab I told you about my husband's intention.

Likhi huwi talaaq

Q: Agar husbnd apni wife ko likh karke "as a husband I quit from any kind of relationship with you" jab k zuban se ne kaha ho aur us ki niyyat talaq ki na ho tou kia talaq ho jaey gi?

Talaaq ke baar me sawaal

Q: My daughter was playing us ky fingers per mud lag Gaya wo apnay father Yani mery husband ky pass gayi uss ko kuch thora sa ghussa karo wo Ronay lagti ha Rotay Rotay Maray pass ayi ma uss ka hands wash kar wany kitchen mein ly gayi Mary husband uss ka Ronay per khanay lagay k (sab ko azad ker churay ju merzi karein jawab nerzi phirein sari hi nazak ban gayi hain muhkum bana ha tu kam karein) that's my ques sari detail iss liya likhi ha k pori bat samaj jaiya ab pouchna ya ha k iss sa meaty relation ko tu kuch nahi howa ya mujy akaili ko nahi kaha Bachun ko b sath mein mila ker kaha tu iss sa mery relation per koi faraq tu nahi ha jab k normal hi baat ho rahi thi jazakAllah.