Q: Mera sawaal hai ke kia kisi gareeb/faqeer ki madad kartey waqat Allah Ta'ala sey us ke ajar ki umeed rakhni chahiey / ya Allah Ta'ala sey dua karni chahiey ke is ke badley ya Allah muj ko yeh ata kar dey? (Sirf Allah sey umeed/doa)
Q:
1. I have made niyyat to give someone something then later I changed my decision and thought I will not give. Is it allowed for me to change my decision after making niyyat to give to that person?
2) I have made niyyat to give a dress as charity to Zaid, then is it allowed for me to give the same dress for Umar as charity, because I found Umar is more deserving than Zaid? Can I change my decision this way? Whenever I make niyyat to give something to someone is it necessary that I give that thing to the same person I made niyyat for or I can give it to someone else whom I like?
Q: If a vow was made that for every R100 a person receives he will give R 20 as sadqah to poor people as long as there is no debt owing to anyone.
1.Can he buy gifts with this money and give it to his family, even though the family are well to do?
2. Can he use the money to sponsor items to the musjid or put the money in the musjid box?
3. If the vow is broken once does the person still have to keep to the vow subsequently?
4. If a person can't remember if he made the vow verbally or in his mind, will the vow be valid?