Q: If a person fears that he will commit fornication if he does not get married, is it obligatory to get married? What if he once committed fornication but he necessarily does not fear it. It just happened once. Is marriage obligatory for him? What if he does not want to get married and if forced to marry he might not give his spouse her rights?
Q: Is it ok to lie in order to save yourself from trouble if what you are doing is not sinful at all but only looked down upon because of culture? If so or if not can you please provide an example?
Q: I passed my puberty and now as an adult can I marry... How should I convince my parents about it.
Q: I said to a man in a video that he is the son of a kaafir, what if the man is the son of a Muslim. And also I said to a Muslim person that he is a kafir without knowing his religeon and then I came to know that he is a Muslim. What to do?
Q: Where can one find advice/books to guide women during their pregnancy? Most books that I have come across only advise from the time of birth.
Q: Men shadi shuda hon shadi ko 4 sal ho gaey. Muje sex men maza ni aata tha phr lazat ki khatir men apni bv se oral sex start kia. Aur krty krty nobat ghtiya alfaz tk ponch gai. Phr net stories phr ghair mardon ki baten ab jb tk kisi bhi ghair mard se ki baten na kren to lazat ni milti. In short word ghairat naam ki cheez ni rhi. Bht preshan hn na es amal se jan churwa pa rha hon na sex k bad khud se samna kr paa rha hon. Kbhi kbhi din krta hai k sex ka sara set up he khtm krwa lon but us se bhi bht se masail janam len. Please meri help kren mery leaydua kren aur please muje btaen men kia kron aur kia hmara nikah jaiz hai.
Q: A few days ago I came to know that nikaah happened jokingly is valid. Since then I have been trying to remember whether I ever happened to jokingly do nikah with any of my cousins or friends. In my knowledge nothing like this has ever happened. But I am in constant doubt what if it has ever happened but I don’t remember. Should i ignore these doubts?
Q: My husband cheated on me and got another wife but he doesn't take any care of me or my baby. Its been 2 years now. He never takes any responsibility of me and our baby. He is too busy with his new wife. He never contacts me or when I call he uses bad language and tells lies. Can I ask for divorce?
Q: I have told my husband a few times that I want a Talaq due to the following reason. We married for 18 years
1. He has never gave me nafaqah
2. He is always rude to me
3. He is disrespectful towards me
4. He does not contribute to the childrens health and clothes needs.
5. He is always asking me for money and never paying it back.
6. He never considers that by not paying me back that whatever debts I may have incurred cannot be covered when he does not pay me back.
7. He has not been intimate with me for 4 years and even then it was only twice a year.
8. He has nothing left over for me never gets me anything for my birthday for the whole 18 years that we are married.
9. He never stands up for me against his family when there was ever an issue.
10. He comes from a wealthy family and they know he does not provide for me or his kids.
11. My kids are studying hifz and he will never sit with them /relieve me sometimes to test them.
He has just asked me for money again this month and I told him No. He got upset to which I said that I was going to resign and stay at home so that he cant ask me for money anymore. He then said he wants a Talaq. So I told him it just proves that he would not talaq me before because he needed me for my money. Now that I will not have money should I resign I will be of no use to him and he cannot take responsibilty for a wife and children.
He has so many debts . I cannot understand what he does with his money that he earns as he is a plumbing contractor. Our rent is even behind.
I need some advise going forward as I feel the talaq is the best thing for me and my children
Q: What should a woman do if everybody treats her unwanted and even after her repenting and spending her life sincerely, people try treat her badly. Who does Allah disgrace and what should they do to be saved?