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Q: Meri bv k najaiz taluqat thy 1 larky se jo mene khud rangy hatho pakra, mery 2 choty bachy hen,meri bv ne mujhsy wada kiya k ayenda koe talluq nahi rakhogi us larky se mujhy sirf 1 moqa dedo, mene bv ko 1 moqa dediya, magar wo ab bhi us larky se sms me chat kerti hai, jiska saboot mery pass hai, me ab kiya karo ? me apni bv bacho ko nahi chohrna chahta, magar ye sab bhi mujhsy birdasht nahi hota, me rato ko uth k roota hon, khowab aty hein k meri bv ne ussy shadi kerli, jab k meri bv mujhy bolti hai me apsy kabhi alag nahi hogi, me bv k azdawaji taluqat theek tareeqy se poory nhi kerha tha usko time or piyar nhi deta tha, but ab bohat ziada care kerta hon, magar phir bi wo ab sms per bat kerti hai us larky se, me kiya karo ?

Q: Muje apny Abu k bare mn baat krni hai, wo bht ek to shak bht krty hain, dosra in k dil me paisy ki hawas bht hai, Allah ka shukr h k hum achy hain, wo retired ho chuky hain, hum 4 sisters hain r ek bhai, na bhai k sath behavior acha h, usko kehty k tm mere bety e nae ho, abi bhai chota h, 2nd year k paper die, usko kehty agy prhna h tw khud kama k parho, bht sakht dil r paisy k hawas h, please esa kuch btaen k wo humare sath thek hojaen, jo kar re eas na kare, meri umer b 26 sal hogae h shadi ka kuch krty nae, ek rishta aea hua h us me b jany ki der krre, on logun ny han kr d ha, meri help kijie hum ghr waly bht pareshan hain, wo humare bap hain is waja se hum in se misbehave nae krty, bs khamosh rehty hain, jo kehty man lety hain, please help karen meri, Allah bht raheem h, shayd Allah ny apko humara sabab bnaea h.

Q: Whatever I do thoughts coming like I am comparing and thinking eqaual one of my friend to Allah. If I don't care will it considered shirk a.. will it be shirk If said I don't care even I am thinking like that .. am sure am not thinking anyone equal to Allah but if I don't care and say this statement will it considered shirk? I didn't do talk like this with this intention but I was ready to talk this statement so is this shirk?