repentance and tawbah

Repentance and tawbah

Q: I have commuted zina by accident I want to repent for my sin and also I want to ask Allah what I can do (pay a certain amount of charity, fast for a certain amount of time, etc.) to make sure my sin is forgiven. I also want to get married to this person who has asked for my hand in marriage without him finding out about my sin so I was wondering if there is any way I can communicate to Allah for helping me and guiding me through this marriage.

Zina se tawbah karna owr shaadi karna

Q: Maine ek ladki ke sath zina kiya aur zina hum dono ki razamandi se hua mai us ldki se shadi karna chahta hu lekin mujhe us ladki ke bare mai malum hua ki woh mere piche kisi dusre ladke se v bate krti hai to mujhe ab kya krna chahiye mujhe us ldki se shadi karna chahiye ya nhi karna chahiye?aur mujhe zina ka kaffara ada karna hai aur zina se tauba karna hai uske liye kya karna hoga mujhe bataiye.

Tawbah Allah Ta'ala ke lia karna

س: مفتی صاحب توبہ تو خالص اللہ کیلئے کی جاتی ہے ، لیکن اگر اس میں اللہ کہ خوف کہ علاوہ اور نیتیں بھی شامل ہو جائیں تو توبہ صحیح رہے گی ؟؟؟ ہمارے عزیز دوست کچھ کبیرہ اور حدی گناہ کہ مرتکب ہوئے اور پھر نکاح سے پہلے انہوں نے توبہ کی جس میں نیت اللہ کا خوف بھی تھا اور یہ بھی کہ نکاح جائز رہے۔ کیونکہ گناہ ایسا تھا جو اسلام سے خارج کر دینے والا تھا۔۔ یعنی توہین ہوئی تھی ۔۔۔ تو اب انہیں یہ بات پریشان کرتی ہے کہ توبہ صرف اللہ کیلئے ہوتی ہے اور چونکہ انکی توبہ میں دو نیتیں تھیں تو اب نکاح کی کیا حیثیت ہے ؟؟؟ جزاکم اللہ

Shaadi me pareshaani

Q: Pasand ki shadi ki thi paanch saal pehle. Tab se aaj tak sirf larai jhagra or kuch nahi. Talaaq dena chahta hun. Ayk masla ha hamara aik bacha ha 10month ka. Nikah me haq mehr 200000 lakh mujal, 200000 ger mujal or is k ilawa aik ye hai ke pasand ki shadi ha or wo wapis apny ghar nahi ja skti becoz thay will kill him. Talaaq ki waja betahasha zuban darazi or batemizi ha.

Masturbation

Q: Whilst I was doing some work, I got aroused. I tried to ignore it but I was feeling overpowered. I held my private parts and squeezed my legs trying to kill the feelings but it made it worse. I was sitting and trying to ignore it but I ejaculated unintentionally. Am I sinful for this action?

Tawbah

Q: A sister wants to know if she got caught out sleeping with another man few years back and she truly is sorry for this act. She has repented. How must she make amends so that Allah Ta'ala accepts her repentance? Must she make tawbah everyday? How must she make amends with her husband?

Making tawbah and crying over one's sins

Q: I am very sinful. Repeatedly I make tauba but I break it all the time by repeating my sins. My questions are as follows:

1. Should I stop doing good Amaal like coming out in Jamaat or sitting in the front saff of the Musjid?

2. When giving Bayaans in Jamaat, I feel hypocritical. Should I stop giving these bayaans?

3. Should I stop travelling to holy places because I am filthy with sins?

Love marriage

Q: Meri shaadi chaar saal pehle tayh hui thi. Mera lov marriage hai aur hum dono ke parents hamare rishtey se khush the aur usko malum tha me garib hu toh me job karungi pr ab wo mujse ahadi nhi krna chahta n meko gandi gandi galiya deta hai jisse mere aur uske waliden bohot pareshan hai, aap kuch aisa wazifa batau k wo khud apne aap jaldse jald muje apnaye aur job krne de. Me uspr koi dua dum nhi kr sakti qki wo job k liye abroad gaya hay. Aapki badi meherbani hogi agar aap meri madad karoge toh.