Naseehat

Doosri shaadi

Q: Mere shohar ne meri ijazat se dosri shadi ki is shrt pe k wo mjhy izzat dy or insaaf kry gy mgr bd m wo bs 2 se 3 hr k leay atay h aik din ke bad. Me ne kaha ke ye galat he to kaha ke agar tm ijazat dy do gi to mjh pe koi gunah nai. Mujhy poochna he ke ab me bhi chahti hu ke wo raat ko na aye balke aye e na. To aisi halaat me main unko ijazat de du to un pe koi gunah to nai or kya mera aisa karna theek he?

Haraam taalluq

Q: Mera sawal yeh ha ke mjy aik larki se mohabbat ha mgar is mohabbat se pehly ma kafi sare gunah ka murtakib tha mgar us larki se talauq ke bad mujy Allah ki pehchan mili ha mjy sufiyana rung mila ha ab ma Alhamdulillah paanch waqt ka namazi bhi hu owr apny gunahon se toba bhi krta hu har wqt Allah ki zikr r Astaghfar se Zuban tar rehti ha hm 2no ki mgar us se phone pe bat krta hn r kbi b by hayai ki bat hm dono me ni hui wo bi muj se mohabbat krti ha hm dono nikah ki khalis niyat rkhty hen mgar aaj k dor k halat ap khud janty hen smj ni aata kia kia jay mgar hm Allah Tala se aik dosray k haq me dua krty hen k Allah pak hme nikah k pak bandhan me jor dy hmari mohabbat sirf Allah ki raza ha r hm aksar hi Islamic topic pe guftagoo krty hen us k halat pasmanda hony ki wja se ma us ki maali madad bhi kr deta hn kia ac mali madad jazz ha. us se nohabbat k bad mjy Allah ki zaat pe sobh k taloh hony ki trah yaqeen ha mgar sawal yeh ha k hmara tauluq jazz ha ya na jaz jb k hm apny nafs ko nikah hony se pehly tk qaboo me rkhtay hen r Allah ki panah chahty hen hmari rehnumai krain kahin hm Allah k azab ki zad me na aa jayen plz jald Rehnumai krain.

Namaaz main gande khiyaalaat

Q: Mujeh namaaz main gandeh khiyaalaat aate hain or galiya nikalti hain. Main apne dhiyaan ko khob contorol krta hu. To nahi hota waju banata hu to khayalat or dil me kisi ko dekh kar gali nikala krti hain. Or mujhpar bhot jimmedari aagai he to meri rozi roti bhi ni jam pa rahi hain. Aap meri kuch madad kr sake wajifat sain amal se to jarur kijiye main nek or parehzgaar banna chahta hu.

Pareshaani owr musibatein

Q: Meri shaadi se pehle hi se her kaam mein nakamiyab raha. Aaj meri umr 60 saal ki hai, abhi tak pareshan hoon. Mera ek hi larka hai jo bachpan hi se bimar hai. 40 saal se mirgi mein mubtala hai. Meri larki shaadi nahi ho rahi hai aur na hi daulay hai. Tamaam umr duaein karta raha, wazife parta raha, lekin musibatein aur barh jaati hai.namaaz aur tilawat kerne se bahut zayada musibat ho jaati hai.Madad chahta hoon. Karam farmaein.

Gande khiyaalaat

Q: Mujhey har waqt gandey khayalath aur gandey sonch aa rahe hai. Ussey kaisey bachey kyun ke jab bhi woh gandey khayalth aur sonch aaarahe hai my merey nafs khabu nahi kar raha hoon, yaani namaz me har waqt aa rahe hai. Iskey liye Dua ya phir kuch aur tareekah issey bachney ke liye.

Mushtzani ka ilaaj

Q: Me 26 years ka hoon. Me last 15 years se mushtzani kar raha hoon. Abhi chodney ki koshish kar raha hoon lekin mujhe raat, din fahash dreams khyalath aatey hai. Me bohot Kowshish karru merey nafs ku khaboo karney ki lekin nahi ho raha hai. Me panch times bhi padh raha hoon lekin namaz me bhi gandey khayalath aur gandi sonch aa rahi hai. Iska answer batiye. Me bahut pareshan hoon. Allah meri hifaazat karey. Merey liye dua karey.

Haraam taalluqaat

Q: Ayk ladki ko ladke se mohabbat hojati hai or wo us ladke ka hath pakarti he jab milte hen or pyar krti he means kisses on cheeks n wo dono aik dosre ki back me hath dalke chalte hn n wo ladki us ladke ko mohbat me apna jism bi dekadeti hai pictures send karke n ladka use apni nude pictures dekhadeta hai send karke.

1) Kia us ladki ko us ladke se nikaah karna lazmi hoga according to shareeiat because usne apna jism boy ko dekadia h pora ?

2) Agar wo ladki ka nikkah kisi or mard se hojata hai to kia ye jaiz nikkah hoga kyn ke wo pele h apni sharamgah jise wo mohabat karti hai us ladke ko dekachuki hai shadi se pele?

Na mahram larke se baat karna

Q: Mera swal ye hain ki mere mangetar ne mujhe bohot bda dhoka dia mere sath bohot bura sulook kia jbki mene hmesha uska bhla chaha kbhi uspe shak tk nai kia uske lie duae ki or esa krke use malal tk nai hua ulta mujhe hi bohot beizzat kia bohot bura kaha esa krke b me jb b use dekhti hu wo bohot khush nazar aata hai kaam me b uski tarakki ho gai or mere rishtedar tk mujhe ye kehte he sb krke b wo to hr lihaaz se pehle se behtar ho gya khubsurati me b jb me khud ko dekhti hu to dil me swaal aata hai ki wo bura krke b khush he or me hmesha drd me wo hsta he me ro rhi hu wo or kamyab or khubsurat ho gya me khud ko dekhti hu to lgta wo to mujhe dekh k khush hota hoga ki ye kitni bekar lgne lgi ise hi sza mili mujhe nai ye sb esa kyu hai bchpan se ye suna bura krne walo k sath bura hota he allah insaf krta he to yaha sb galat nazar kyu aata he lgta he jese bura krne wale khush rehte he aaj kyu use sza ki jgah kamyabi mil rhi he allah ko to sb pta he usne kya kya kia.