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Q: Muje ye swl krna hy mere shohar mjh pr bht zulm krte h kharcha v ni dete na bache ka saudi me rhte hy my sasural me rhti hu maike se bache ka jo v qhrcha hota h laleti hu wo zina v krte hy kisi ko v ni mlm sb mje btate hy jo v krte hy aur mjh pr bewajh gusa krte hy aur shadi pr hi bht dechuke dahej ab bhi ghr wagaira paison ka demand krre dene k bawajud kuch na kuch puchte hi rhte ni diye to mjpr gusa krte bht mental tourcher krte btein v bht buri krte hy kisi ko v ni bol skti mje kuch smjh ni ara bardasht krk rhna chahri hu unk sth usk bawajood wo aisa hi krre kbhi kbhi bht dar lgra unse agey kaise rhngi unk sth talaq lene ko sochri hu phr talaq lu to agey ki zindagi ka kya mje kuch smjh ni ara mje kya krna hoga pls btaye

Q: Ayk saqs ki biwi ger mehram ke sath chali gyi, safar me se shohar ka sath chhudha ke, beshaq biwi ne humbistari or badkari ki us germehram se, jab biwi bhag ke gyi to shohar se keh ke gyi ki me hamila hun or yah bachcha is mere ashiq ka he, ladhki ke walden us biwi or uske ashiq ko pakdh ke le aaye, hamila khatoon ka hamal girwa diya, yah baat shohar ko or uske khandan ko pata chal gyi, shohar ki nani or mamujaan ke samne ladhki ne gunah kabool kiye... bad ab masla ye aa rha he ki ladhki ka baap ladhki ko uske shohar ke gar hukumat ke jor se bhejna chah rah he, yani indian low kanoon ke hishab se, hukmrano ki fazihat ka aalam india me ye he ki jo biwi kahe wah sab sahi, bad sab kuch janne ke, char gawah hone ke bawajood , ladhki ki baap ladhki ko uske shohar ke gar bhej rha he... ladhki ne pehle gunah kabool kr liya, ab saf jhuth bol rhi he, ab agr liyaan ki surat bhi ekhtiyaar karta he to uske jahil walden baap chalne nhi dega... is surat me kya hoga... ladhka agr na chahte huye bhi us ladhki ko rakhe, to kya yah nikah jayaj he, or agr mazbooran rakhne ke bad agr ladhka sare hukook ada kre siwaye jismani to yah kesa... ladhki ki jani hone ki baat pure muaashre me, yani 70-80 gavo me fhel gayi, ladhke or ladhki dono ke sehar me, izzat to jati rhi. yani ladhka jo shohar he uski duniyawi zindgi to jati rhi ab aakhirat ka kya hoga??? agar shohar gusse me ladhki or uske aashiq ka katal kr de to kesa... baraye mehrbani islah kare....

Q: Hum kuch sal se problem mein hai , aj kal to ghar walay b seda mu hum se baat nahe kar te ,ghar se baak ja ne ka maan kar ta hai rishte b nahe ar te arte to b kuch na kuch waja se toot ja tay hai yard das bahut kamzor hogeya hai umar 30 hu , koi kam thek se nahr kar pata yeh problem 6 se k kareeb se hai to kuch month pehlay hum ne istekha rah kiya k hum per jadu wagera hai ya nahe un dinno mein hum do kul surah har waqt parte rahte the istekharah mein Allah pak ke taraf se kuch iishara malum huwa k hum per kala jadu kiya geya hai aur kar ne walay ghar mein reh ne wali rishte dar hai aur Abba per b kiya geya hai aur hum do no k kun mein hai Allah fazal se hum asar bahut kam hogeya aur Abba per bahut hai per ek baat samaj mein nahe arya tha (Rabiul Awal k 12tareq ya ne Rasool (s) k birthday ka kuch iishara tha k har waqt tasbi per ne walay aur humein har waqt tas b perh na decide kar na ) hum ne socha 12 tariq k baat sab thek ho jayin gay per kuch alag he huwa ghar k halat us din k baat aur bighar giya hai ab hum kya kare jadu karne walay shaq saath he reh te hai aur ghar walay ki si k pas iilarj k liye jana pasan nahe kar te kah te hai jo kare ga wo bare ga humlog us k sam na Allah ko rakha hai ap kuch haal bata ye.

Q: Mujhay koi aisi dua batai ka jis se me puri tarha apne nafs pe control kar sako me bohat koshish krta ho lakin 1 week se pehle hi control nhi kr pata or me namaaz or Qur'an bhi parhta ho to pher ku ye sab kuch?

Q: Mai ek aysa ladka hu jiske k pass ab tak itna free time Mila hai jitna shayad hi kisko milaa hoga. To jab mere pas time tha to Mai ayse hi baithkar junk kaam merepas kuch nahi hota tha to Mai ayse hi soch me padjaata tha to ye cheez ki mujhe aadat hone ki wajah se mujhe waisi soch se bachne ke liy problem horahi hai. Saamne wala kuch bhi baat kare to use seriously lelera hu. Jo bhi kaam hai mere dad karlete hai. Mai ibaadat guzar hu. Mai iske tahat in he batana chahta hu ke mai bhi kuch hu. Kya aysa nahi hosakta ke mere andar dareness paida hojay. Mai sirf ab tak soch ne me waqt zaaya karchuka hu. Ab isko haqiqat me badalna hai. Andar se bahar ana hai.

Q: Main jho bhi karobar karta hu who chalta hain fhir thode din baad band ho jata hain ya fhir naukar bhag jate hain samajh main nahi ata kya problem hain usma abhi Chinese fast food chalu kiya 5 din hogahe hain aur 5 din main 5 admi bhag gaye mujhe bataiye kya masla hain?

Q: Mujhe jab ibadat Mai Karta Hu to din alag malum hota hai aur raat alag.kasrat se aamaal kiwajhse dil ko behad qarar aur sukoon mehsus hota hai jaisa Mai hero Hu.aur mujhe ye waqt aage b milna hai Jo mujhe samjh nahi araha k Mai kya karu.friends kehrahe hai k ibadat hi karni thi to padhai kyu Ki?aur Mai darta bhot Hu isk liy kya kiya jay?har cheez me end samjh leta Hu.aysi soch Maine qud banali hai junk mere pas always free time life me Mila hai. How to Change my mind?

Q: Mera sawaal ye hai ke mera nikaah hoa hai rukhsati nahi. Ab baat ye hai k islam main mujhe apni biwi se milne or bahar jane ki bhi ijazat hai or hum agar pyar karna chahe to wo bhi kar sakte hai. Ab meri maa mujhe mana karti hai milne se jab k larki k parents mana nahi karte or agar kbhi mera dil chahta hai to main chup k mil leta ho lakin apni maa ko nahi batata q k us ka bhi dil krta hai mujhse mile ab jub hame islam or qanoon ne ijazat di hai to hame q mana kia ja raha hai or han meri maa ne hame ekele dekh lia tha lakin hum kuch nahi kar rahe they ab wo khandan ki waja bana rahi hai ya kuch or baat hai ab main kia karo biwi k haqooq bhi hai or parents k bhi main bht parishan ho mujhe reference k saath jawab de de.

Q: Maqlooq ka dar nikalne ke liy kya karna chahiy? Hesitation door karne keliy kyunk ache log ache waqt ka intezaar karte hai but waqt kuch zyada horaha hai and one more question paisa kamana hai kya kasrat se aamaal Ki wajh se Allah taala ghaib se risq ka intezam nahi karsakta kya?

Q: Ayk lady he. Bohot hi deen daar he. Namaazi bhi he. Unho ne cell lia usme fb unho ne use krna start ki unhe ati ni th use krna jbh bs wo aleem e deen ka name search kr k unhe add krlia krleti th ya pic lagi dekh kr.to ase hi ak larka 29 to 33 age ka h unho ne use request send ki ku k unho ne ksi aleem e deen ki pic lagai hui th ab jb add kia bt hui to unho ne btaya k me aleem e deen ni bs unka manne wala ho wo b deen dar h kafi.ab wo lady roz bat krti h deen s hi link call pr hi bt krti h hn unse wo unhe apna mo bola bacha khti hn. un lady k bache b h bacho ko thori prob h bt krne me shohar ko koi prob ni ab ap ye bataen k kia jaiz h bt krna asa deen me allow h kia wo theek krri h?