Naseehat

Q: Mri shadi ko hue aj 4 mahinay hogaye hn main jis ghar main shaadi ho kay gai hun whn par peer o murshid ko sb kch manna jata hai main jab wahn rahi mainy daikha whn aik kamra hai jo safaid pardon sy dhakka hai jisko wo apnay peer yani janasheen ka kamra khty hn wo log unkay agy nauzubillah Sallah alaihi walai wasalm lagaty hn wo log us kamry main jaty hn roz ka mamool hai whn mard log us ghar ky kursi kay hathon ko chomty hn jisko wo dars bosi khty hn r aurten sajda karti hn jisko wo qadam bosi khty hn wo un kursi ky agy dua mangty hn mjhy ye karny ko kaha gaya mainy nahi kia abh main hamla ki halat main hn un logon kay ghar main quran kay phly page par blue pan sy apny peer ki hidayat likhi hain main namaz parhti hn tw khty hn ye sakht suraten hn main yaseen shareef parhti hn tw khty hn kay ye jo tm parhti ho issay hamary upar sakhti na ajaye quran o hadees ki roshni main mjhy kia karna chahiye is wqt mainy shohar sy alag ghar ka mutalba kia hua hai r kaha hai ye sb kam ap chor den jo kay galat hn abh ap mjhy bataye mjhy kiya karna chahiye is wqt quran o hadees ki roshni main.

Q: Mai ek ladke se bohot mohabbat krti hu. Hmlog relationship mai bhi the fir mujhe usne chor diya.... months baad khud call or messege n call kiya kuch din baat hui fir wapis baad bandh hogyi har jagah block kr diya mujhe....mai bhot dua krti hu wo badal jae mujhse sacchi mohabbat krne lge...mera maqsad jaiz hai nikkah krna chahti hu....plz mujhe koi wazifa batae jisse wo badal jae...wo hamesha ke liye mera ho jae.

Q: Meri zindge ghaltiyo sy bhari hui hy or ghaltiya b aisi jo jan bojh k nai karti bus ho jate hy theek tareeqy sy mera koi b kam ho raha ho main aisi ghalti kar deti hu k sub khatam khud mera nuqsan hota hy lakin mujh sy jury har rishty ko b takleef hoti hy .meri shadi ko 4 sal huwy 2 sal sy maiky main the seprat rehti hu meri sas mery shohar sy larti rehti hain un ko kehti hain tumhri bv milte nai hmain shakal b nai dikhati.or such bat ye hy k kuch sas k ghusy sy dar lagta hy or kuch sharmindagi hy apni ghaltiyo py himat nai hoti unka samna krny ke aulad ke naimat sy b mehroom hu deen sy b kafi dur hu jutna qareeb hona chahti hu utni dur ho jati hu meri islah farmaiye.

Q: Meri ayk parosi he jis se ayk ghalti huwi thi. Uski kisi larki k sath bohot ache friendship he dil ki gehrai tak leken us se ye galati hogai ke usne ayk bar lesbian rishte jesa kam kar diya ab wo pachta rahey he leken use dar he k ab Allah use maf karega ya nahi please answer me k use ab kiya karna chaye.

Q: My sister is having extra marital affair with my husband for the last 7 years. During this time, my two babies were born. Now my sister got married to someone else. Kya mera nikah abhi tak qaim ha? Mere husband ke meri behen ke sath ta'allukaat ki waja se mera nikah toot tou nahi gaya? 

Q: Ma jawan hoty hi kuch glat aadat main mubtla ho gya aur kye saal to is trah zindgi guzarta raha, mgr mjy ab ahsaas honya ha k ye sb to mri hony wali b.v ki ammanat thi jis main ma khiyanat kr betha hon. Main tooba krna chahta hon, meharbani farma kr meri rehnumaye farmayen k meri ye galti meri hony wali b.v aur Allah maaf kr dain. Ma apny gunahon pr bohat shirminda hon. Is waqt meri umir 27 sal ha aur ma abi gair-shadi shuda hon. Shadi ka soch kr apni kheyanat yaad aati ha to sochta hon shadi hi na karon. Meri rehnumaye farmayen.

Q: Mujhe na jane kya ho gayi hai jab bhi bohot logo ke saath rehti hoon tab sab ke saamne mujhe khudko bohot choti mehsus hoti hai. Ugly mehsus hoti hai. Aisi kyu hoti hai? Asal mai sab log mere husband ko pasand karte hai. Mujhe uski kabil nahi samajhte. Mai bhir mai tanhayyi mehsus karti hoon. Mujhe kuch saal se iss problem hai. Mai iss rog se chutkara pana chahti hoon.

Q: Mai apne husband se bohot pyar karti hoon... mere husband mujhse zyadaa khubsurat hai. mere mu pe log jab ye kehte hai ke mai khubsurat nahi hoon. mere chehre ka rang gora hai bas isiliye mere shadi huyi hai. mere face shape achchi nahi. mere sasural wale kabhi kabhi kehte hai ke najane mujhme aisi kya dekhli mere husband ne jo mujhe shadi karli. kabhi kabhi mere husband bhi kehte hai ke mere face shape achche nahi hai... mujhe bohot dukh hoti hai. jee chaahti hai k mar jaoon. shadi ke pehle pehle samay wo mere chehre se pyar karte the aur mai thodi acchi bhi dikhti thi. lekin ab sab log mujhe aise kehhte hai aur mai sach mai hi kharab hote ja rahi hoon. mai boht dukhi rehti hoon. koi mujhe mere husband ki kabil nahi samajhte hai. koi mere picheto koi mere mu pe ye keh dete hai ke mai khubsurat nahi hoon. mai apne shohar ki kabil banna chaahti hoon har taraf se.

Q: Jab b may kisi admi ko dekhta ho to os kai mari sat larai ya jagra hojata hai.

Q: Mara sawal ha ka mein haiz (menses) ki halut mein thi apni bati ki islamiyat ki book dekh rahi thi os mein Qurani suratain bhi hein mein dekh rahi thi ka Qurani suratain kahan sa shurouh ho rahi kanhi pehlay to mera hath nahi lug gaya paje olltanay per mera hathe qurani sourut ko lug gaya jis ki waja sa mein tention mein houn ka es sa mujay gunah to nahi ho ga owr es ka asser mery iman owr nikha per to nahi ho ga mein na souna ha ager haiz ki halut mein wuran ko choun (touch) lain to iman odr nikha fased ho jata ha kia ya bat such ha