Haraam relationship
Q: I fell in love with a girl who used to be my brother's ex girlfriend for three years. Can I marry her? Now she is deeply in love with me and she regrets her past.
haraam relationship
Love marriage
Q: I wanted to ask a question that is love marriage halaal or haraam in Islam? If a girl who is in proper Islamic dress watches you constantly and doesn't say anything, is it fine to ask her for marriage and is it ok to text once in a while the person you love before nikaah?
Haraam taalluqaat
Q: Ayk ladki ko ladke se mohabbat hojati hai or wo us ladke ka hath pakarti he jab milte hen or pyar krti he means kisses on cheeks n wo dono aik dosre ki back me hath dalke chalte hn n wo ladki us ladke ko mohbat me apna jism bi dekadeti hai pictures send karke n ladka use apni nude pictures dekhadeta hai send karke.
1) Kia us ladki ko us ladke se nikaah karna lazmi hoga according to shareeiat because usne apna jism boy ko dekadia h pora ?
2) Agar wo ladki ka nikkah kisi or mard se hojata hai to kia ye jaiz nikkah hoga kyn ke wo pele h apni sharamgah jise wo mohabat karti hai us ladke ko dekachuki hai shadi se pele?
Na mahram larke se baat karna
Q: Mera swal ye hain ki mere mangetar ne mujhe bohot bda dhoka dia mere sath bohot bura sulook kia jbki mene hmesha uska bhla chaha kbhi uspe shak tk nai kia uske lie duae ki or esa krke use malal tk nai hua ulta mujhe hi bohot beizzat kia bohot bura kaha esa krke b me jb b use dekhti hu wo bohot khush nazar aata hai kaam me b uski tarakki ho gai or mere rishtedar tk mujhe ye kehte he sb krke b wo to hr lihaaz se pehle se behtar ho gya khubsurati me b jb me khud ko dekhti hu to dil me swaal aata hai ki wo bura krke b khush he or me hmesha drd me wo hsta he me ro rhi hu wo or kamyab or khubsurat ho gya me khud ko dekhti hu to lgta wo to mujhe dekh k khush hota hoga ki ye kitni bekar lgne lgi ise hi sza mili mujhe nai ye sb esa kyu hai bchpan se ye suna bura krne walo k sath bura hota he allah insaf krta he to yaha sb galat nazar kyu aata he lgta he jese bura krne wale khush rehte he aaj kyu use sza ki jgah kamyabi mil rhi he allah ko to sb pta he usne kya kya kia.
Wife involved in a haraam relationship
Q: Two years ago I got engaged to a girl and then I told her that if you want to live with me, you have to control yourself and don't do anything which affects our relation other wise if you do, I will do more bad and no sorry will be accepted then. She promised me that I will not do anything like that. But now after three months of my marriage I know that my wife was in a friendship with someone on the internet before marriage. Now I am confused what to do? I am not talking to her from 7 days. I want to know about my problem. What should I do according to the Islamic point of view?
Na mahram larki ke saat talluq rakhna
Q: Kya na muharan larka aik larki ko behen ke heseyat se talluq rak sakta hai?
Terminating another person's marriage
Q: There is girl and she lives in Pakistan. She was married in 2006 wiht out her permission because she was poor and had no option. She didn't
like her husband but she could not do anything. She never loved him and her husband knows that from the very first night. He just living with her because she is beautiful and he told her that if she was not pretty then he would have married with another girl in another city secretly. They have kids now (daughters).
I met her 3 years ago because someone ask me to marry her sister and I talked to her family but in few days I found that I like her instead of her sister so I said no and I stopped talking to her.
After 2 years (last year) met again on chat and started talking and she asked me the reason but I didn't tell her but we kept talking and talking and after few weeks she got feelings for me because she never loved her husband and we got involved in each other but we never met and never cross limits Alhamdulillah. It was getting tuff for us and we tried to search if Islam allow us to marry after getting divorce from her husband but we found answer ”NO” on your website and we didn't want to risk our next life and make Allah angry. I lied to her that I am getting married and we stopped talking but in 6 months we never stopped loving each other and we pray 5 times and recite Qur'an and make dua but feeling never ended. We now talked again after 6 months and it's same. It's tough for her to live with him any more.
I know its all devilish things we did but we never cross limits and we tried to disconnect from each other. But I think now that we are making sin with this so we get married and she tells everything to her husband and get divorce. I could think different if she was in love with her husband and then changed her feelings. But she never.
We are very much religious Alhamdulillah and pray and can never think of making unlawful things but its tough now.
I want to ask if we marry then will we have any chance to get forgiveness of Allah and make Him happy. I know you must be getting angry with me but I think it's better to marry with each other than making sins.
Please help us in the light of Quran and Sunnah.
Tawbah
Q: Myje smjh nai a ri me kase baat krn lekin bhtt zada pershan hn.me ek lrky k sth relation me ti usne r baat shdi tk chali gai ti hmamri phr ghr walon ko bech me shamil kia lekin jb mere walid shab ne usk bare me pta krwia to sb jhot nikla jo jo usne mje btyia wo sb glt ta r 4,5 jaga se istakhara b krwia wo sahi nai nikla..mene ab usy chor dea hai lekin mene usne mere sth ek safa sex kia hua ta r wo ye keh k kia k shdi to krni hai hum ne phr ku rok ri me usy..me b uski baton me agai wo jo kehta ta krti ti yahn tk k usko mene pase tk wo muj se mangta regta ta...e kehti ti k nai hain wo kehta ta jahn mrzi se lao to mene usko ek do dafa apni mama k pass se nikal kr b dea.. Usne mje twez tk dea k ye rakho ghr waly man jaen gy r ab jb usy chor dea hai to wo muj pe r ghr walon pe twez r jadu krwa rha...sir mene Allah se sachy dil se tooba ki hai her gunah r glti ki r kr ri hn kia Allah ne mje maaf kr dea ho ga??bar bar dil me khyial ata k mar jao ab kuch sahi nai hone wala lejin me raton ko jag k Allah k agy tooba mr ri k mje bacha ly meri izzat bacha ly...Allah ne meri sun li ho g kia?? Wo insan mere sth hoty hue b r krkiyon k sth ta r phele b physical reh chuka hai..mere maa baap razi nai ty is rsithy k lye to me pechy hath gai jb k wo kehta ta k me usk sth bhag jaon ya nikkah kr lon r usk lye pase b sth le kr aon.
Informing the parents of a teenage girl who is involved in an affair
Q: I recently came to know that my cousin sister who is just 14-15 years is having an affair. What should I do now? Should I tell her parents about her? Wouldn't it be called as "chugli" ? I mean I have heard that Allah taala said that " tum zamin walo ki izzat or raaz ki hifazat karo, Asmaan wala tumhari izzat or raaz ki hifazat krega". I tried talking to her personally and she agreed to leave him but it was all fake, she is still in touch with him. Is there any dua to recite which can bring her on the right path? I don't want her to ruin her life and career, she is just a kid , I am really very upset. Please reply soon so that I can bring her out of such things.
Showhar haraam talluqaat me mubtala he
Q: Meray husband ka serious affair hay ek aurat kay sath jo kaafir he or us kay sath woh sab kuch kar chukay hn or wo aurat or bohot sai mardoun Kay sath so chuki hy meray husband nai kaee baar usko chorna chaha par chor Nahee sakay aj nobat yaha tak aagayee he kay woh uskay liyai mujhay kaee baar chor chukay hn. Meray teen bacchay hn or shadi ko 12 saal hogayee hn meray sai sirf normal baat cheet kartay hn husband wife jaisa koi relationship nahee hy. Mai bohot takleef mai hun samjh nahee aata kay kya karoun. Kehtay hn mai chor dunga usko jaldi or us sai shadi nahee karounga par us aurat ko pora yaqeen delaya howa hy kay mai tumko kabhe nahee chorounga. Us sai kuch boltay hn mujhsai kuch boltay hn. Jab woh us aurat ko chorna chatay hn tau unko depression honay lagta hy control nahee hota. Mai nai Bht dua Ki Abhe bhe karte hun par koi farq Nahee. Ab tau Mera dil heee hatnay laga hy apnay husband Sai.