gheebat

Gheebat se ihtiraaz karna

Q: Mai bohoth pareshan hun. Do din se galat galat khwab arahe hn or be same tym par Kal maine dekha ki maii kisi mall k niche khade hokar ek ladke se baat karrahii hu tabi waha ek ladka ya ladki ati h yaad nahi toh mai uss ladke se kahti hu chalo kahi chup jate hn o hame na dekhe aur ham chup jate hn ek STD k andar toh mall k upar ek 13 saal ki ladki khadi thi jise maine pehle kabhi nahii dekha toh mere shohar ki frnd ki biwi thi bolkar malum hua . wo jakar apne shohar ko boli dekho tumhare dost ki biwi ko kisi aur k sath galat talluk hai . magar hm ek bhai behen ki tarah baat karrahe the fr andar gye hm toh mere shohar bhth dukhi the meri baton ka utna care ne kiye maii zor zor se sar ka baal pakad k rorahii hi thii o bus sar niche karke afsos karrahe the fr kahrahe the ki mai kya kahu mai kiski baat manu. aise hi mai zor zor se rorahi thi nind khul gyi.

Backbiting

Q: I have a mental condition called psychosis, OCD, split personality disorder and I sometimes just completely just zone out randomly (previous to them I'll be completely engrossed in the remembrance of Allah) and i will start going through my memories of events by judging people, talking to or about them as if I am enacting them, and sometimes my body goes into automation (either 100% or partial while I'm still able to control my self) and I start backbiting them or I just have the emotion of malice that is not genuine and the next word or phrase I say is something dangerously close to backbiting or it is backbiting. In these situations did I backbite these people and do I need to seek forgiveness from the people I have backbited while I was still partial in control? (for example, I'll be randomly talking and acting out a discussion of two people and I will have the emotion of hatred for them and I'll put myself where my next word is to speak bad about them or is dangerously close to it.) I also do these things while I'm talking to Allah myself or to unknown made up intentions to the surrounding area of where I am (I am almost 100% alone when I am doing this).

Gheebat ne karna

Q: Mujhe khwaab ki tabeer puchni thi. Maine raat khwaab main dekha ke hmare ghar main shadi ki tyari chal rhi hain or usi beech main ek room main hun apni khaln ya bhn ke saath or main soo rhi hoti hun to achanak meri ankh khulti hai to dekhti hun k table pr ek body pari hai or mere saath jo hain keh rhi k is ki qurbani krni hai isi liye isay yhn rkha hai main bht darr jati hun or unhe kehti hun k plz ap isay na maren ap sb ko kehna k ap marnay hi lgi thi to pta chla k is ka malik to zinda hai q na usay mara jaye or yeh keh dena k main hu us ki malik phr mjhe koi nhi maray ga phr meri khln ya bhn jo b thi khwb main usay chor deti hain zinda hi or main bht dar jati hun kampne lg jati or shadi ki tyari chl rhi or dulhan b tyar ho kr a jati hai phr meri ankh khul gyi. Ap se guzarish hai k plz mjhe mere is khwb ki tabeer batade.

Refraining from gheebat

Q: My wife slept when I left for office last Sunday and she saw a dream in which she saw two goats lying on the floor which have already been sacrificed. Then she saw my mother and two children walking or passing around them. They all got stains of blood on their clothes from the floor where the goats were lying. After that she woke up. She does not remember more than as mentioned above. Can you help us to understand this dream?