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Ghareloo haalaat

Q: Mera sawal yay sab hai ki meray waldain ka intikal ho chuka hai un ki zindagi say hi meray bhaiyon nay ghar main wanal macha rakha tha yahab tak kay saray paisay jo papa nay kamai wo sab jhoot bool kay rabah karwa diyay aur sirf aonay doston ko bhara yahan tak kay sadka khairat lainay ki nobat aa gai .meray yay bhai kuch kamatay bhi nahin thay aur hum sab ko daratay dhamkhatay ab un kay intilal kay baad aik ghar bacha hai wo ami kay naam hai meray bhaiyaun nay mery behnon ki shadiyan bhi nahin honay di ghar main gand macha rakha hai aur chacha ko bola to unhoon nay kaha kay yay hamaray khoon main hain is liyay ager yay maray yay nuksan karay to koi baat nahin.police ko batanay ko bola to kaha ghar ka maamla hai.aur ab achanak us main say aik nay chup kay shadi kar li hai aur hamain zor zabardasti us kay saath mila raha hai aur doosray bhai bhi milay hoi hain bara bhai jis nay tabahi machai hai us ko shadi say rooka aaur ab khud shadi ker chuka is sab main mery behnoon ki zindagi aur chootay doka bhaiyon ki zindagi barbaad ho rahi hai mery maa kay intikal ko do saal hoi hain aur do saal say main in ko samjha rahi hoon ab olzmujhay bataiyay kia karoon.bara bhai kuch kamata nahin hai phir bhi ghar kay grd main kabza ker kay reh raga hai aur rabahi macha ra ha hai.aur mujh say chotay nay jis say shadi ki hai wo nafsiati mareez hai aasay main meri bhnain tabah ho raji hai main kia karoon kuch samajh nahin aa raha plz reply

Purchasing land on one's brother's name

Q: I purchased a land combined with my brother and my name with my money which he knows, later again I purchased a land in both names with my money which he does not know. Now if we sell both land combinedly signed then what is the ruling about sold money? According to Islamic law, is he entitled to get the share of sold money? If he is entitled to get, then he will get share of total land or the share of land part he knows ? It is mentioned that with the intention to live together in same city I purchased the land in both name but after he got married then he is no more interested to live here and living in separate city with his family.

Does a widow need her brother's permission to get married?

Q: I was married before and have a son who was born within my marriage and now I am divorced and would like to remarry. However I have no relationship at all with my eldest brother who supposed to be my wakeel, as he does not acknowledge me and he even calls me a Kaafir infront of people. He always insults me infront of others. He does not greet me back when I greet him and he is also someone that had been for hajj and prays 5 times a day. He is my fathers eldest son from his first wife and I am the youngest daughter of the 2nd wife. Both my mother and our father passed on. My question is if I would like to get married, do I need his permission since I have already been married, as I am trying to be the better person but he does not allow me to as I have now decided to keep my distance from him.

Giving zakaat to one's brother

Q: My younger brother is jobless and have no source of income at all. He got married and now expecting baby this month (Insha Allah). Since he is going to have addition in his family and it will be hard for him to bear expanses for himself, wife and newborn. Can I give him Zakaat money so he can manage his living expenses?

Sister encouraging her brothers to perform Salaah

Q: If elder sisters tell her brothers to offer prayers. Sometimes they offer and sometimes do not offer prayers on her advice. Her mother said that you make us (parents) sinners because we do not tell our sons to offer prayers in a right way and you tell them. Mother said that it is our duty to tell sons to offer prayers not yours (daughter). Mother said that I stop you to tell them to offer prayer. Now what should the daughter do? Can she tell them to offer prayer or obey her mother in this matter? She thinks that as she is elder from brothers she must ask them to offer prayer. Is her thinking right or not?