Q: I plan on travelling overseas with my brother. The only issue is the accommodation wherein he has requested that I share the room with his step-son. He is currently 11 / 12 years. There shall be two single beds. Please advise if this is allowed.
Q: I have been married twice before and have three children. I am living back with my parents (mom and brother) since earlier this year, but work and see to the kids for everything excluding rent to stay. I am having a hard time coping financially. I would like to remarry but my brother (my father has passed on some years ago) thinks it is too soon and will not meet the man that has put the proposal forward. My question is do I need consent from my brother and or mother?
Q: Mera bhai ki amdan bht kam hai ikhrajat k baad us k pass 5000 bachta hai us ki pay 41000 hai lekin do bachon k ikhrajat or bivi ko kharcha denay k baad kuch us k apny liye bhi nai bachta. Kya mai us ko zakat day sakti houn?
Q: I have some bank interest money. Can I give it to my real brother because he is not financially strong and he is living with me with his family? We are unable to live together anymore and does not have any source of income. He does not have his own house. According to his condition, please guide us.
Q: Mera masla zara gaur se padhe aur shariyat ka ky huqum hai iss mamleme hame rahenuma kare Baat darasal ye hai ke mere bhai ki shaddi 10 mahine pahle hui aur wo job ke silsel se bhar hi rahte lakin bhabhi jab bhi ghar bulati wo sab kam bajume rakh kar leave le ke ghar aajate aur mahine me one week bhabhi ke sath hi rahte ...aur bhabhi se be-inteha mohabbat karte hai aur jaha tak bhabhi ka sawal hai unhe to khana bhi barabar banana nhi ata ...shaadi ke wqt bole ke sab kuch ata hai fir bhi yaha hum logo ne khana pakana sikhye ...wo apne shoahr ki farma bardari nahi karti ...das baar koi baat bolne per ek baar sunti ... bhai ne bole hui kam nahi karti ...yaha tak ki namaz nahi padti ...quran nhai padti ...parda nahi karti ...ye sab bhai ne force kar ke karwate .... aur bar bar maiyke chali jati ..bhai ke mana karne ke bad bhi ..kai bar to bhai hote hui maiyke chali gaye ..bhai ne use samjaya aise mat kiya karo alkin koi fiyda nahi ..fir mere wailden ne samjaya kuch din acche rahti bad me jaise ke waise ...phir bhi ne unki sas ke samne ye bat rahki ..kuch din ke bad fir waise hi chalu ...fir bhai ne sasur ke same ye bat ki ...to kuch din ke bad fir waise hi ...baar bar ghar chod ke jane ke dhamki deti bhai ko ...koi kam me dil nahi lagata tha bhabhi ka aur bhai ne jab biwi ke huqooq ke bayan sunaye to bhai ko kahti tumare paas sab byana hai kya kio songs aur movies nahi hai kya.. Bayan sunane ke bad bhi koi frak nahi pada kuch din sab karti bad me wahi apni akad dekhati ...aur to aur bhai ne ekdam sede aur sunnat takrike se shaadi ki ...aur bhabhi se kaha tha tumari jo bhi zarurte hai sahaddi ke bad wo sab bhai poori karenge aur ek shohar hone ka haqq mere bhai ne bahot acchese nibhaya ...kisebhi bhabhi ke rishtedar se poocho to wo yahi kahte ki tumri beti ke kismat bahot acche hai uske shohar uski har ek zarurat ka bahot khyal rakhta hai ... Aur us ke bad bhabhi ne ek din ye bataya ke Shaddi se phele wo apne chachre bhai ke sath pyar karti thi aur 4 se 5 sal us ke sath zina bhi kiya aur to aur uske chachare bhai ne uski sab gandi taswere lake useka bahot jismani fiyda uthya ...aur uske dostone ne bhi .. aur usne uske sath shaddi bhi nahi ke aur bas har baar uska nazayaz faiyda uthta tha ... itna sab hone ke bad usne bahi se mafi magi ...bhai ne maaf kardiya aur uski zindagi kharab nahi honna bolke use sath hi rakaha. kuch nahi kiya ...aab ye bat ke wo taswere us ke chachere bhai se kaise nikale aur aage jake koi pareshni na ho bolke ...unhone apne saas aur sasre ko ghar per bulaye .. aur baar bar bhabhi bhi kahti ke wo taswere us se hasil karna hai ye sab soch ke bhai ne bhabhi ke walidain ko bat karne bulaye...aur ye baat sir bhabhi ne bhai ko batye ...bhabhi ke wailden ko iske bare me kuch nahi malum tha ...kam as kam bhabhi ne shaddi se phale ye baat apne waliden ko batana tha na ...unhone aisa kiya nahi . bhai ke saas aur sasre akle nahi aye wo apne poore logo ko leke aye 10 se 15 jents aur 5 se 7 ladies ...aur bhai par tohmat lagaye ke bhai ne apne hi biwi ko force kiya ke aise bol bolke .. aur jab bhabhi se sab ne pooch sach kya hai to bhabhi kaha mere shohar ne muje force kare ye sab bolne ke liya to maine bola ...aur bhai ke uper najne kya kya ilzam lagaye ye muj per shaak karte ....aur bhahes bahot badh gayi ...aur humare pass hum ne kise ko bhi nahi bulaye bhai aur pitaji dono hi ...bhabhi sab logo ke samne mukar gaye aur apne hi shohar ko ke upar tohmat lagne lagi aur boli ke mai aise nahi hu maine aisa kuch bhi nahi kiya ye sab zoot hai ...mai igusse me thi isswaje se boldiya... aur uske bad wo log zabardasti bhabhi ko sath leke chale gaye ...hala ke bhai ne ijzat nahi di thi bhabhi ko jane ke ...bhai ke sasur bole meri beti ko mere sath bhjo nahi to mai yahi khudkhushi kardunag to hum log sab khamosh ho gaye aur wo bhabhi ko le ke chale gaye ... Bhaibhi ne mere waliden ke sugar blood pressure badha diya ....sab ko tension de kar wo chai gaye ..... uske bad bhi bhai ne apne sasur ko call kiya ...bhabhi ke uncle ko call kiya lakin wo log call nahi uthare ...phir mere khala ke ladkene bhabhi ke chacha ko jakar baat akri ..unhone bataya wo logo ki tabiyat kharab hai bad me baat karenge ...fir mere walid ne un logo ko call kiya wo log koi bhi jawab nahi de rahe hai .... aaj ek mahine se ziyada ho gaya hai wo logo ne call bhi nahi kiya aur hamara call bhi nahi uthya ...jo kuch baaat hui thi wo bhabhi ke maum aur uncle se hui thi aur wo bole ke ..ladaka hamri bacchi ko torcher karta hai ...aur sata hai ..aur sahakh karta hai ... aur yahi baat unhone mere walid se bhi kahi jab mere walid ne unhe call kiya tab. Mera bhai to panjwaqta namzi hai ..shaddi ke bad bhabhi ko to bahar gumane bhi le gaye aur to aur bhabhi jo cheej ko dehkh le bhai use kharid lete bhabhi ke liye ... agar koi aake bedroom dekhenga to samaj jayenga ke kya kya nahikharida bhai ne bhabhi ke liea har ek pasand bhaibhi ke kharidlate. aur ek baat bhabhi bhai ke samne ek bat karti aur unke aur mere waidain ke same alag bat karti ...jo bhai ke same qubool karti wo sab ke samne nahi karti .. aur bhabhi bahi ko to bahot satati bhi thi lakin bhai ne kise ko nahi bataya ...aur na mere waliden bhabhi ko kise baat ke liea kuch bolte na fir unhe satate. aab aise sitwation me hume kya karna chaiye ...shariyat kya huquum deti hai ..humari rahnumai kare ... Aap apna zawab zara tafsil se de taki sab kuch samajne me asani ho.
Q: I'm living in my parents house with my brother who is on drugs. He keeps on stealing my stuff even after I speak so nicely with him. This is going on for years. He frustrated me and my wife and my wife is really putting pressure on me because of it. She even threatens to divorce me. I do confront him in a respectable way. Will it be the right thing to fight and hit him? My wife says I'm too soft and probably wants me to bash him. Will hitting him do justice according Islam? Please advise me.
Q: Aap ki madad ki jarurat hai. Mera ek chohta bhai hai age 22 saal hai. Janaw uske wajeh se puri family preshani main rehti hai Ammi Abbu or hum bade bhaiyu se bhi wo gali deke baatein karta hai usse hum pyar se samjhate hai par wo hume hi marne aata hai use kaise sudhare bahut Bigad gya hai wo Ammi Abbu tak pe haat chor deta hai aaye din uski wajeh se bahut preshani hoti hai or fiqr bhi hoti hai uski kahi kabhi kuch ho naa jaaye meri family bahut preshani main hai aap se Guzarish hai koi salah de hume ke hum kya kre jis jagha hum rehte he wha saare Hindu Hai or jo ghar musalmano ke hai wo bhi sath nhi dete jub mushibat aati hai tuh sab darte hai kahi kuch ho na jaaye please help.
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1. Is it permissible to give my zakaah funds to my brother because he has lost his job and cannot make "ends meat"? (He does not have the zakaat nisaab).
2. If it is not permissible to give my brother, then , can I give it to his wife who also falls in the category of a zakaah recipient?
Q: My youngest brother (on many occasions in the past) disobeyed and disrespected my parents because of a girl he wishes to marry. It has gone to the extent that he has packed up his things and left home. He is now planning to marry this girl. We have been told to just let him be. In the process my parents have became very ill and decided to leave their residential home to not be present when the wedding takes place. After he marries this girl, what is our role (according to Islam) in terms of our relationship with him and his wife?
Q: If my brother is in debt for 200k earns +- 14k also has old lay-bys that he pays for every month, has two children, rents a flat, has house expenses plus petrol, always ends up taking money and food from my mum, can my mom and I give him our zakaat or interest money to pay his debts?