respect

Respect for parents

Q:

1. A girl is unable to love her father because he hurts her feelings, will she be accountable for not loving him?

2. After marriage girl should give importance for her parents or husband's parents?

3. A girl is happy in her husband's house because her in laws treats her well than her own parents. So naturally girl starts loving her in laws more than her parents will she be accountable before Allah for not giving so much of love for own parents? Please note that this girl had to suffer emotionally while she was at her parent's home due to some of the behaviour of her parents.

4. Will we be accountable in the court of Allah if we have little hatred for someone because that person used to hurt our feelings through his/her words or behaviour?

Bhai ki wajah se pareshaani

Q: Aap ki madad ki jarurat hai. Mera ek chohta bhai hai age 22 saal hai. Janaw uske wajeh se puri family preshani main rehti hai Ammi Abbu or hum bade bhaiyu se bhi wo gali deke baatein karta hai usse hum pyar se samjhate hai par wo hume hi marne aata hai use kaise sudhare bahut Bigad gya hai wo Ammi Abbu tak pe haat chor deta hai aaye din uski wajeh se bahut preshani hoti hai or fiqr bhi hoti hai uski kahi kabhi kuch ho naa jaaye meri family bahut preshani main hai aap se Guzarish hai koi salah de hume ke hum kya kre jis jagha hum rehte he wha saare Hindu Hai or jo ghar musalmano ke hai wo bhi sath nhi dete jub mushibat aati hai tuh sab darte hai kahi kuch ho na jaaye please help.

Items on which the name of Allah Ta'ala or Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) is written

Q: I have a question. There are many things on which Allah and Muhammad is written like papers etc. I got a laptop from PM Scholarship program. On it's screen there is written Mohammad ___________ . As it contains a the Holy word "Mohammad", I feel that it is disrespectful to put that laptop down on ground level or under the level of peoples feet. Sometimes it is really difficult to do this. There are many papers on which "Allah" and "Muhammad" is written, I wanted to ask what is the sanctity of all these things. Also can we put it on the ground? (Because it is people's foot level) Please answer.