hurmat-e-musaaharah

Son touching the mother

Q: About fifteen to twenty years ago my brother touched my mother at chest near neckline. My mother being a very light sleeper woke up. I got to know about hurmat-e musaharat masala sometime ago. I'm not sure about his age. It may be 13 or below. My mother is absolutely sure that he didn't touch her with lust. But I'm having guman that may be my parents nikaah is broken. I'm very depressed.

Hurmat-e-musaaharah ka shubah

Q: Agr aik larka bike me aik maa or aik beti ko bike pr ly ja rha ho or larki ky pakar kr bethny ki wjah sy lazzat mily or usi doran us ki maa ny bhi pakara hwa ho lekin na hi un sy koi lazzat ka irada ho or na hi lazzat mil rhi ho to kya esi sorat me us larki sy shadi ho jaye gi?

Doubts on hurmat-e-musaaharah

Q: I usually get thoughts on hurmate mushahara, like when I shake my dads hand, I am scared and worried. I don't have lust but I get thoughts that suppose it is lust. My father in law is old, about 60 something and Aalim. Now he was lying down in the room and I was in the other room. It was open so I could see who was sleeping. Now I get these thoughts about lust. So my father in law was sleeping and I went to pray namaz. I was just looking at his private parts, it was not open, he had on kafni n izhaar so I couldnt see his private part and the room was kinda dark and I was a distance away. Now I didn't have any desire but I just get these thoughts about lust. I was just looking at the private part area but father in law had on his pants. So after I saw something like a penis, I was thinking that his private part was out when he was sleeping or was it a material. I saw not sure but my heart was thinking that it was not his penis showing. I just get these thoughts and I don't want them. I have no lust feeling for my father in law and I didn't look with lust. I just looked because I wanted to see if I get these thoughts. Is my nikaah valid or will hurmate mushahara apply? 

Hurmat-e-musaaharah

Q: Kal raat ko mai beti k paas soya tha. jb rat ko meri ankh khuli to mera hath beti ki sharamgah per tha (shalwar ka andar se), mujhe bilkul hosh nahi ye kesay hoya. neend ki wajah se mujhe buhat thora tora yaad hai. mai foran peechay hatt gya or buhat sharminda bhe howa. us time mujhe koi shehwat nai thi. meri beti ki age 7 saal hai (abhi 7 days baki hain 7 saal honay me). Kia hurmat to sabit nahi hoti?