Impurities

Q: I always have doubts whether I washed my hands after istinja or after washing my child. Will everything I touch become impure?

Q: Sometimes when my daughter swims, she chokes and some of the water comes out of her mouth. Does this make her mouth napaak and if she eats and drinks from dishes thereafter does the dishes also become napaak?

Q: Will clothes with najaast become pure if washed in the washing machine?

Q:

1. Once after urinating some drops came and I touched it with my hand which was less than a dirham. At that time I assumed it to be water and ignored but now I think it was urine and with this same hand I touched the water bottle and I didn't wash it. Since then when I fill the bottle with cool water the outer portion also gets wet and my hand too, so was my hand najis all the time and I might have touched other objects after the hands got wet. I also might have prayed salaah in this way. Will my salah be valid? At that time the impurity was less than a dirham, but due to filling the water as the outer portion also gets wet, will the impurity spread and exceed the size of a dirham and make me najis as well?

2. I get a lot of waswasas about purity and about many other things. Please tell some effective ways to fight these waswasas. I try to ignore but I fail.

Q: What is the diffrence between mani and mazi?

Q: There were very small tiny spots of madhi on my undergarments (very much smaller than the excusable diameter) and when I make istinja the front organ is wet and touched the area but nothing got onto me so as the impurity was of excusable amount can I regard myself as pure even after the wetness from my body touched that area?

Q: There is smell of najasah on a piece of clothing, but no najasah is visible, only smell. (a) Will a salah prayed in this clothing be valid? (b) Does the clothing have to be washed?

Q: I am from India. Mufti sahab please let me know that can I use liquid stiffener (revive) in our clothes for praying namaz?

Q: My friend ate chicken and washed his hands and then he met me and touched my shirt then I noticed his hands and they were wet and then I found out that he ate chicken by asking him. His hands were wet when he touched me and I don't know whether the oil of the chicken was still there on his hands or not and I don't know if it is haram or halal (chicken). Is my shirt paak?

Q:

1. If my lips bleed and I lick my blood and then my lips are clean and there is no trace of blood on the tongue, are my lips and the tongue paak.

2. Due to sweat and scratching dirt remains in my nails and I made wudu and I read salaah and then after sometime I noticed dirt in my nails and I am not sure whether it was before wudu or after wudu. Is my salaah valid? Is this kind of dirt permeable.