Impurities

Doubts with regards to urine

Q: I have a question about urine drops. I took my four year old to the toilet and I wiped her first and her urine dropped on my hands as I went to reach out for the water I'm not sure if the urine went anywhere else. It was a very small drop but I didn't think it would go anywhere up until I went to wash my hands.

Mazi coming out when speaking to girls

Q: Whenever I talk to a girl, even if it's a normal conversation, some liquid comes out from my private part in a very very minor amount. What should I do? If this happens I will be talking a bath 24/7 and how could I handle my practical life before marriage? Even if I am talking on the phone I feel seduced without any reason, having just a normal conversation. Please help me, I offer 5 times Salaah and remain in wudhu. I do not watch TV a lot, no movies, songs. One in a day if possible. My life is ruined because of this. Help me.

Doubts and waswasas regarding purity

Q:

(A) I had a shower at night. I washed my slippers and feet whilst in the shower.

(B) Then I went out of the house for just over 2 hours wearing the same slippers. When I returned home it is most likely that, by that time, my slippers were dry.

(C) I then got in to the sleeping bag, which I have borrowed from my parents home and which I am using at my house. At the time I went to sleep in the sleeping bag it is most likely that my feet were dry. At the time of sleeping, I thought to myself, when I wake up in the morning I must wash my feet and slippers again as a precautionary measure.

Urine drops problem

Q:

1. Once after urinating some drops came and I touched it with my hand which was less than a dirham. At that time I assumed it to be water and ignored but now I think it was urine and with this same hand I touched the water bottle and I didn't wash it. Since then when I fill the bottle with cool water the outer portion also gets wet and my hand too, so was my hand najis all the time and I might have touched other objects after the hands got wet. I also might have prayed salaah in this way. Will my salah be valid? At that time the impurity was less than a dirham, but due to filling the water as the outer portion also gets wet, will the impurity spread and exceed the size of a dirham and make me najis as well?

2. I get a lot of waswasas about purity and about many other things. Please tell some effective ways to fight these waswasas. I try to ignore but I fail.

Mazi on one's clothing

Q: There were very small tiny spots of madhi on my undergarments (very much smaller than the excusable diameter) and when I make istinja the front organ is wet and touched the area but nothing got onto me so as the impurity was of excusable amount can I regard myself as pure even after the wetness from my body touched that area?