Factors that break ghusal

Q: I broke my ghusl yesterday and today before performing ghusl, I trimmed my pubic hair by applying shaving gel then fluid started coming out of my private part. I sat on the toilet seat for like 20 minutes squishing my private part to get all the fluid out, but it was continuously coming out. I got under the shower for 5 minutes and again went to the toilet seat to check if it was still coming out, there was a little of it but after squishing it twice, the fluid stopped coming out, I checked twice and there wasn't any fluid. I performed ghusl but I am not sure if that fluid came out during the performance of ghsul or not or afterwards. Do I need to perform ghusl again?

Note: I face a lot of waswasa during ghusl and it takes me about half and hour to perform ghusl! It's really hard for me so I just don't want to do it again!

Q: I am 20 and my ejaculation has been stopped and can't be done with out my own will. So what order of bathing is upon me and what stage am passing through.

Q:

1. It is has become a normal habit amongst females to read romance novels. The content of these books arouse desire within the reader. If this desire leads to a discharge will ghusal become fardh?

2. Is it haraam to read such content?

Q: I just got married in need to know if I foreplay with my wife such as sucking her body and kisses. Do I need to take a bath or just wudhu will be fine?

Q: When I meet my wife but do not have the actual intercourse with her, thin fluid comes out from my private part. If I clean it in the morning then is it ok or is it necessary to have ghusal?

Q: I have been having little doubts about wet dream. I woke this morning and I got changed and went with my day. Didn't notice any wetness or anything, but when I got home in afternoon to pray I got little doubts so I went to check the garment that slept in. When I checked, the garment had very little white dry patches. Since I saw these patches I got more waswasas. Also I put this garment with my clean clothes. I was wondering is this garment impure? Will my prayer be invalid? Is this just waswasas? If it is not waswasas, will the other clothes become impure as well?

Q:

1. If a lady experiences a climax during foreplay, does ghusal become compulsory on her?

2. If a lady masturbates and experiences a climax, then is ghusal fardh on her?

Q: What things can cause orgasm? Is being nervous to avoid such thoughts equal to orgasm? Does any discharge after being nervous need ghusl? If in doubt what to do whether it was orgasm or nervousness?

Q: When at night we see a wet dream and we ejaculate, is it farz to do gusl afterwards? In winters it is difficult to take bath at fajr and then go to masjid. If after ejaculation we don't do gusl can we offer salaah with just wudhu?

Q: I have just married. I need to know if I foreplay with my wife, more precisely playing with her body (sucking, etc.) no intercourse, do we still need to take a bath to offer prayer or just wudhu will be fine?