Q: Are we as Muslim women allowed to marry a married Muslim man. I like my boss. Everyone says he is married but he never told me he was married. I really like him and I think he likes me too. Is it wrong if I tell him how I feel towards him and pursue him?
Q: Please advise if the following store credit and voucher operations are permissible: (1) "Earn credit by referring your friends to shop on [online store]. Simply invite friends to sign-up via email and you will earn R100 store credit when each one spends R200 or more for the first time." (2) "Employees will be paid via vouchers that can be used to purchase commodities from [so-and-so] store. Vouchers cannot be redeemed for cash. It is not possible to use such vouchers at a store other than the one stipulated."
Q:
1. Some ladies who have the habit of being in the state of wudhu, make wudhu even during their haiz period. Is there virtue in this?
2. What zikr does a lady read at each salaah time when in the state of haiz?
Q: Being the doubtful person I am I have gone to extremes. I keep washing or cleaning everything. I was washing my hands and the sink had slow drainage so water was collecting in the sink and slowly getting drained. The water collected I felt that a few drops splashed on my arm. Now I am not sure if it actually happened as I didn't see any water drops but may be there were as I felt them. I wasn't able to clean my shoulder and my hair touched that area. Did my hair become napaak or did I become napaak? As the water was collected in the sink and slowly draining and people wash their dirty hands and impurities in the sink but this water was collected while I was washing hands. Can a few drops make me and everything napak. If a person drinks alcohol and then drinks water and doesn't brush or wash mouth and keeps eating 2 3 meals etc does their hand and the plate they are using become impure? I have become so finicky that when I see something wet on floor I presume it to be something impure. Like urine or vomit or impure water. I went to a restaurant and I saw wetness there I don't know whether that was water or alcohol etc and I feel like it touched my feet etc though it didn't and these thoughts keeps haunting me that what if I don't wash. I will make whole house and everything impure. Please help me.
Q: Me and my husband just came to know that I am expecting our third child and I am 7 weeks pregnant. This is a unplanned pregnancy and Alhumdulillah we were satisfied with our 2 kids and were taking precautions but with Allah Ta'ala's will I am expecting our third one, but my husband wants me to terminate the foetus. He has worldly reasons time and money for better upbringing. I understand his anxiousness but I am really confused whether to follow my husband or to the laws of our creator Allah Ta'ala. Please advise.
Q: On my cell phone is a feature called FaceTime. This enables a person to speak with another by looking at their face in real time. What is the ruling regarding use of such a feature?
Q: I had a little accident. I wet the bed at night so my clothes were soiled with urine and when I went to the bathroom to clean my self up, on the way, as the corridors in the house are narrow the clothes and my hand touched the walls and doors, what shall I do about that? will it be ok for me to spray the walls and door handles which I would have touched with cleaning spray, which is clear and smells different?
Q: If the inside of the nose gets napak with blood or you accidently touch the inside of the nose with napak hands without thinking because it itches how shall I make it paak?
Q: If my body is napak and I go in the shower and then my body touches the shower walls, do I have to wash the walls and if I do then how much shall I wash them because I usually wash them about 10 - 15 times, just spray the walls with the shower heard about 20 times.
Q: When a person has a wet dream or masturbates, he spreads impurity! When he spreads it, it (sperms) touches the furniture, the furniture is impure right?
1. How to clean the furniture (sofa)
2. How to do ghusal?