Q: I wanted to ask regarding a person who got married to a woman and didn't have relations or spent time in seclusion with his wife and went to America. He did, however, touch her with lust.
After a year, he says that he, in his full senses is giving her Talaq, talaq, talaq.
What is the maslah regarding the amount of talaqs and iddat regarding this woman.
Q: For over five years, I have been struggling with a strong desire to write books. However, these books revolve around fantasies and stories that may be morally objectionable, yet entertaining for others. It is also possible to earn money from such books. On the other hand, whenever I attempt to write books about Islam and promoting good behavior, I find myself getting bored and unable to proceed.
I am seeking reassurance that writing fantasy books of this nature is forbidden, as it would help me find peace. Additionally, I hope you can provide me with relevant Quranic verses that describe my predicament.
Q: I always plan but I don't follow through, what can I do? I pray also, but my life is not changing, mostly setbacks. I want worldly success too because if I don't have money I don't think continuing spiritual life will be possible. So help me.
Q: During saee, what is the proper way. Should we make dua only in the beginning and at the end (i.e dua should be made twice only) or dua should be made everytime we reach safa and marwa (i.e dua should be made for a total of 7 times)
Q: Is it necessary for a woman to be with her mahram to perform tawaaf e ziyarah and saee. I know women can't perform hajj without a mahram. But does he have to be with her physically for the above 2 actions to be valid for her or can she perform the above mentioned actions alone while her mahram is in the hotel.
Q:
1. Can a husband take his wife back during the iddah of khula? Would there have to be a new nikaah even though it is during the iddah?
2. Is the iddah of khula 3 haidh cycles as well?
Q: I am married. We are financially not fantastic with both of us working with 3 kids. We live with my parents. We bought an investment and sold it off but covid came and we could not repurchase a home. Now things are expensive, it's hard to get by even on two incomes. Family and friends all around me seem to be financially killing it, bought homes, have good jobs, can afford to send kids to good schools.
I feel resentment for ever getting married, listening to my parents and having kids. I feel anger towards my husband for not being financially settled and mapping out and striving for a better financially secure future. How can I get rid of these thoughts and feelings. I try being grateful and just working hard and praying but around me someone or another will mention their recent good job or house purchase or financial gains and I will go back to the bad thoughts.
Q: Can we save money in post office?
Q: Is it permissible to purchase and keep or give as hadiya etc. a Kruger coin, as it contains a picture of a Springbok. (It can be kept in a casing which covers the moorat).
Also, it is not possible to carve out the tasweer from the coin. Many people give Kruger coins as Mahr etc. What would be Mufti sahebs advise on this.
Q:
1. Does one have to make ghusl after having intercourse with his wife even if he does not ejaculate?
2. Does ghusl have to be made immediately after intercourse or can it be made whenever?