Sending a proposal
Q: I would like to know if a boy can see many girls before deciding on which one he would like to marry, or should he see one girl at a time?
Q: I would like to know if a boy can see many girls before deciding on which one he would like to marry, or should he see one girl at a time?
Q: I read about the Islamic ruling that a man should not touch his mother-in-law, and if he does that, his relationship with his wife will forever become haraam. I am very conscious about this.
Today I visited my in-laws with my wife and I was very conscious about it more than before. My mother-in-law wanted to give me a gift for my birthday and I did not accept the gift. She forcefully gave my the gift by lifting my hand and putting it in my hand. I had no sexual desire towards my mother-in-law before she handed it over to me and even when she held my hand to give me the gift, I had no sexual intentions. But, I had a rush of blood in my body when she was continuously insisting and forcing me to accept the gift. When she held my hand to give me the gift, there was a rush of blood, but believe me there was no sexual desire or intentions from my end. I am very much upset now that whether my wife has become haram on me?
Q: Agar biwi koi kaam karne se roke bole, "tu ne ye kiya to teri meri talaq hojaye" to kiya wo kaam karne se talaq hojati hai?
Q: Does laughing at wierd funny beard styles constitutes kufr? E.g. Beards just from the side cheeks, a straight line, etc.
Q:
1. Should the wife give preference to listening to her shaikh's bayaan or to do what the husband requests at that time.
2. Should the wife give preference to listening to the bayaan of an aalim that is a khalifah of her shaikh or to do what the husband requests at that time.
3. Should a wife give preference to read her wazifas for 1 hour or more when she wakes up around 8am or should she be attending to her husband's needs.
4. Is it permissible for a wife to play nazams and qiraat loudly in the house when she knows it causes a disturbance to the husband?
5. Is is permissible to play qiraat loudly in the house when other members of the family are sleeping?
6. Is it appropriate for the mother of children to let them sleep till 10am or 11am on Sundays and holidays? Should she not be inculcating the habit in them of waking up early and doing some work?
Q: Is it permissible to wash the hands in the same plate that we ate the food (after eating)?
Q: How long is it required for a person to donate to his poors relatives? Since he see's that they are not working? If I stop giving them they will not even work but their families will suffer more or continue donating will make them worst?
Q: I embraced Islam a few years ago. My brothers aren't Muslims. Will it still be permissible for me to hug them, talk to them, etc.?
Q: I embraced Islam a few years ago. When I was a non-muslim, I was quite a well-known figure and there are pictures of me everywhere. After I embraced Islam, I tried my best to delete what I could, but it is impossible to delete all. There are hundreds of people who might have my pics and I wouldn't even know about it. So is it a sin for me?
Q: Is there any virtue reported in the Hadith for passing away during the month of Ramadhaan?