Q:
1. When a married couple spend personal time together without intercourse and they satisfy each other and the wife is in period does she has to take ghusul or she should wait until her cycle is complete?
2. Does she become paak if she takes ghusul in the state of period?
Q: My deceased father (passed away 5 years ago). He gave me a big flat worth 90 lacs and gave my sister a smaller flat worth 40 lacs. What is the difference amount I have to pay to her after giving 1/8th share to my mother? Also she says she has a 40% share in my flat because of the delay in the sale of the flat. I have never delayed or opposed or obstructed the sale of my flat. Is it correct for her to demand this 40% share in my flat saying that the sale was delayed? Please guide me as to how this should be done based on the above figures.
Q: A girl was born out of wedlock. After she was born her mother accepted Islam. She is not sure if nikaah of her parents was thereafter performed or not. After a few years the parents divorced. The girl was brought up by her father from the age of 6 until marriage.
1. Is her father a mahram to her?
2. Are her uncles (fathers brothers) mahram to her?
3. Does she need to adorn the hijaab and purda from her father and uncles?
4. Will she inherit from them?
5. If she does not inherit what is the procedure of wasiyyat?
6. Is her brother who is also born out of wedlock from her same parents haqeeqi or akhyaafi?
Q: A person tried to save their marriage and it resulted in one talaaq and the marriage is over due to iddat period being complete. However the husband insists that the wife should remarry him but doesn't want to acknowledge that he has a drug problem. Therefore no help or efforts to reform him can be made. The wife has no intention to reconcile because of this. There are kids from the marriage as well. Is she sinful in anyway? Can society blame her for not going back because she has kids? Please advise.
Q: My wife was feeling very low and sad due to the loss of our baby. I said to her: "I will always want you so long as you want me, and if you don't want me then I won't want you". When I said this bit I was thinking if she ever wants to leave me then I will divorce her. I realised that this may constitute divorce so after a pause of 3 seconds or so I said: " even if you don't want me I will still want you". A week or so later in a massive argument she said you can divorce me now if you want. I am not sure if she had the intention of divorce when she said this. But later on she said if we have this kind of problem again then she will won't want to get back with me. Does any of this constitute to a divorce.
Q: Please clarify regarding who can be a mahram.
1. Can a cousin, son of fathers brother be a mahram to his cousin?
2. Can a cousin, son of mother's brother be a mahram to his cousin?
Q: I want to know if having clothing accounts like truworths, miladys and so on is haraam?
Q: My husband and I are both reverts. I have no mahram to protect my rights. I found out on Tuesday that my husband has a new wife. It was secret for a few weeks (he claims he can't remember how long he is married. I estimate 2 weeks to a month) that was Tuesday, and on Thursday he left for a planned 40 day jamaat. As you can imagine, now is the time I need his assurances more than anytime. I am trying to be obedient and accept his new wife. I am really trying hard. But, he let slip that he bought her salaah tops, scarves and tasbeeh. In our whole 5 year marriage, he has never, ever given me a single gift. And he said that his gifts to her don't include me as it to help her live her live as a Muslim. Is that true? My husband, has told me many lies over the last few weeks, and I asked him multiple times. Does he have a new wife. He repeatedly denied it. He also lied about his repeated 3 days that he had recently. How do I forgive him, and start trusting again? My last, important question. How do I find my Allah again? When I try to pray or make my zikrs or even just speak to my Allah. I feel like there is a door in front of me that I can't penetrate. I can't sleep or eat. I am fasting so I can try to be closer to Allah. I am making my salaahs on time. Sir, I love my husband and I want to make it work, and I want to regain my relationship with Allah. I also have to accept her. If I die, she raises my children. And he is threatening to take my children, he is threatening to leave me and take them. If I don't comply completely with everything he wants. What can I do?
Q:
1. Can you go on kuffaar websites to read the news?
2. Can you read kuffar newspapers?
3. Can you go on fussaaq [transgressing Muslims] websites to read the news?
4. Can you read a newspaper written by a faasiq?
5. Can you use youtube whatsapp viber etc?
Q: I have a problem with depression. This is related to a girl I like and I feel that she is a test from Allah. But the issue is I cannot get her off my mind. I am a religious person but still with the recitation of Qur'an this ill feeling is still sticking and it's very hard to focus on anything else. She is not a Muslim which is the other issue. Please brother tell me what I can do about this situation? She is working with me which compounds the issue.