Urine splashes

Q: I was urinating in the toilet, I was careful not to try and avoid any splash back so I put some tissue into the toilet. After urinating I noticed 2 specks of urine on my left fingers. I could not see any other specks of urine. Are specks of urine overlooked completely. Also I was washing my private area, I find it easy to use the tap and run water over it, that is the only way at work, after water had run off my private area (penis) some water splashed back. Is this water najis or not?

Lazy Husband

Q: I got married 1 year ago, my husband is still studying but before marriage he made a lot of promises to me that he would complete his studies he has made this promise to my parents as well. But after marriage I have seen no attempt to make an effort to do anything. When I speak to him about he acts as if he is trying which only lasts one day then he is back to his old ways. He is currently working and I am expecting. His job pays very little and I have tried to explain to him that if he can finish his studies he can apply for a better job insha Allah but he refuses to let this affect him. He reads his namaaz but does not wake up for fajr unless I wake up. If I don't he will not bother. I am feeling very bad and no good feelings and I am afraid that if this goes on I will not be able to take it. Is there any dua I can read for him to change his ways and take some responsibility?

Husband not wishing to issue a divorce

Q: I have a very unusual question. I am married and alhumdullilah I am blessed with 2 sons. A few years ago my dad passed away in an accident and my mom was young so we decided to get her married and we did. But her husband was not of good character and he left her after two months and my Mom came back to my house. It's more than 3 years now he did not contact her but at the same time he is not giving her divorce. We asked so many times but he always refused it. Now we have another man who wanted her to get married to him but he is not giving divorce. We can't go to court because of some legal issues. So in that case what does Islam say about women in this situation?

Negative feelings

Q: My question is that I am suffering from inferiority complex. I mean despite having friends, good family, beauty, money and all these, my heart is not satisfied. I only think with myself that I don't have any friend, I get serious on small jokes of my friends, I get too much tension from small things. I think that the people are ignoring me, if two of my friends are going closer and I am a little on distance with them I feel that they don't care of me, whenever I look to the handwriting of my friend my heart says that there writing is better than mine. Simply I would like to say that I have no peace of heart and mind and I always consider myself smaller than others. Please tell me the reason and treatment.

Not paying attention to futile things

Q: Sometimes people have these strange looks in their faces that is annoying and sometimes they can't help it. You realise this when you are having a conversation with them. I want to know, please can this be linked or traced to hypocrisy or mental behaviour of the face, insincerity, or due to effect of sins done with the face or any form of sins? Please I want to Know.

Fear of committing shirk

Q: Please tell me whether I committed shirk or not. I was praying Salatul dhuhr and shaytan was really pestering me with whispers, now in the final sujood I decided to recite this ayat in surat Yasin "Alam aahad ileykum ya bani adam an la taabudu shaytana innahu lakum aduwun mubin. Waanibuduni hadha siratun mustaqim". Now the part that is really stressing me out is that I wanted to let shaytaan know that I am following Allah's path so after the ayaat I said "wa ana aabud or wa ana aabudu.."something like that and I stopped and thought I had committed shirk (even worse because I was in sujood) maybe implying from what I had said that I was worshiping shaytan (wa iadhu Billah min dhalik). Because I don't know Arabic and I tried to conjure that in Arabic. Please if you could tell me if what I did was shirk or not and did it refer to shaytan or something?