Loud Zikr

Q: People take bayat/pledge to a Shaykh and there is a system of Tasbih 6, 12 and on and on but there is Hadith in Tabarani that Amar ibn Salama (Radiyallahu Anhu) said that we were at the home of Abdullah ibn Masud in between Magrib and Esha and in the mean time Abu Musa (Radiyallahu Anhu) came and said I saw a matter that terrified me, some people have came into the Masjid one of them said  recite subhanallah alhamdulillah. Then Abdullah (Radiyallahu Anhu) came to the Masjid and said to them you have deviated. In another Hadith in Abunuayim that Abdullah ibn Jubair (Radiyallahu Anhu)  has reported by his son that some people came in Masjid and in the time of dikr they fell to the ground then he said to his son do not meet with them.

From this I understand that this type of tasbih was not there in the time of sahaba (Radiyallahu Anhum). So what is the truth?

Taweez

Q: I am wondering if you can help me please Inshallah. Would you be able to write Surah 12 word for word for me so that I can wear it as a taweez please? Or is it permissable to print it off from the net and wear it?  I have been told that a taweez has to be written with a special black or blue pen on clean paper where dua's and quls are read on the pen before writting. Can you let me know?

Shaadi kis se honi ha, taqdeer me he?

Q: Hamaari shadi kis se honi hai hamari kismat mai phele se he allaha ne likh deya hai ki hamari shadi is ladki ke sath he honi hai kya hum dua or wazifa se apni kismat change nahi kar sakte hai? Mera one yeras phele rishta hoya tha sab kuch theek chal rha tha lakin ab mera rishta tut gaya ladki ka bhai razi nahi hai sab log mujh se bolte hai apki kismat mai who nahi hai dua or wasife se meri kismat chamge ho sukti hai kya? Mai bot ziyaada pareshaan ho. Please mujhe wasifa batao jis se mai phir se un logo ko razi kar lo. Please meri hepl karo.