Remedy for "Don't care attitude"
Q: I am in grade 10 and I am not paying any attention in school or in any of my studies I am very defensive and have a don't care attitude towards life. What should I do?
Q: I am in grade 10 and I am not paying any attention in school or in any of my studies I am very defensive and have a don't care attitude towards life. What should I do?
Q: I am very weak in my nafs and cannot control my self in improving my life to strive to fulfil my endeavours. I want to get education and become financially sound, but my nafs doesn't allow make me. I am lazy. Please advise me what to do?
Q: I saw a dream that I was standing beside the graveyard looking for my grave but the graveyard was full and my Hajj Muallim is telling me that there is no space for you in this group (Muslims) and he locked the section so I found open space outside this section but suddenly a non Muslim group came to bury their old mother (Mexican) next to my place where I am standing and I am telling them that do not bury her here because this is my mother's grave so they went away. My mother died very long time ago and her grave is in Pakistan. Could you please tell me about this?
Q: I am in need of some advice. My husband and I are having quite a lot misunderstandings and always arguing etc. Last night he sent me a message saying it's over and I must pack up and leave. Does that count as a talaaq and does my iddat start immediatel?. He just messaged me again saying "its a divorce" so I'm confused as to whether I need to sit in iddat ?
Q: My husband and I are having quite a lot of misunderstandings and always arguing etc. Last night he sent me a message saying its over and I must pack up and leave. Does that count as a talaq and does my iddat start immediately? Now he just messaged me again saying "its a divorce" so I'm confused as to whether I need to sit in iddat?
Q: When I go to the toilet, I find it hard to wash my hands. I soap them then put them under the tap. Once all the soap is off I think the water on my wrist is impure still so I wash my arm from the elbow to finger tips and I keep doing that and still I have a feeling that my hands are impure even if I've urinated or past stool still I wash my hands like this and I use wet toilet paper 3 times instead of istinja.
Q: I would like to know whether stem cells are allowed in Islam. In this case I would be storing it for my heirs only. Furthermore I would like to know whether a medical aid scheme is allowed. The medical aid portion is only a hospital plan. No insurance. Please advise whether the above is allowed and if not please comment in detail why not.
Q: Is it permissable to take pictures of animate objects without eyes or the head?
Q: Is it true that we should stick to one ulama group regarding fatwa or can we check others as well. Sometimes even in the same Mazhab ulama have different views on the same topic e.g women cutting her hair etc.
Q: I was told me that we cannot bleach our face because it coats our skin and ghusl will not be done. Is this true?