Nikaah ke maamle me larki apne maa baap ke saat mashwarah karna

Q: Mai jisse pyr krti hu wo shadi shuda hai or Hm dono nikah krna chahte the. Pr ab wo piche ht gaya. Maine bhi y sochkar contact kam kr dia ki namahram hai bs Allah se dua krti hu ki hmra nikah ho jye uske liye istikhara Kia ki mera intezar krna sahi hai ya nahi. khwab ye hai jo teen din dekha

1.Maine khwab me dekha ki mai hawai jahaz me baithi hu to sbko utar dia ki isme blast hone wala hai bs 5 ya 6 log hai.unme ek ladka hai jo meri umr ka hai or usne kale rang ki shirt phni hai agey seat p hi islye face nhi dekha.mai khti hu ki ap log b utar jayo to wo khta hai ki sath jiye nhi to kya marege sath. To unko nachane k liye mai gate p ati hu to dkhte hu ki mai train k gate p hu or wo road p chal rhe hai jaise hi uski speed kam hoti hai mai utar jati hu or sadak se niche sukhe khet m pahuch jati hu.or manzar badal jata hai dekhti hu ki mai ek bade se ghar m hu kitchen m meri bhatiji hai phir mai ghar k bahar lawn m akr baith jati hu palang p na khush hu na udas bs Mann m y bat ki mai uska intezar krugi. Phir manzar badal jata hai dekhti hu ki mai class room m hu or parcha dekh k pareshan hu ki iske jawab nhi ati phir ek ladka jo meri bahen ka class mate meri help krta hai or mai parcha hal krti hu or khti hu passing marks ml jyge.

2.mai bus se apne school ja rhe hu meri dahine taraf kaale naqab m ek buzurg aurat baithi hai or khti hai mjhe rasoolpur jana Hai. Mai bahar dekhti hu bhare kheto k par rasoolpur dikhta hai to mai unse khti hu ki apki manzil a gye or samne wali seat p ek ladka ulti kr raha hai. Phir dkhte hu ki ek buzurg admi kaale libas me hai or wo uski bv se phone p meri bat krwate hai phone p wo mjhe bura kehti hai or mjhe pata chalta hai ki wo apni bv ko marta hai.

3.mai apne school jati hu jaha mai padhati hu.gate p pahuchte hu to principal or do clerks ko dekhti hu. Or bache rang birange kapdo m school me khel rahe hai.mai khte hu ki inki to chhutti hai. Phir apne libas ko dekhti hu ki bahot purana hai or ander nhi jati bs gate p colleague ko apne documents de dti hu ki ander le jye or mai wapas taxi stand p akar white colour k taxi m baith jati hu. Plz iski tabeer bataye.

A: Larki ke lia na mahram mard se baat karna jaaiz nahi he. Aap Allah Ta'ala se tawbah kare is gunaah se owr pukhta azam kare ke aap aainda ye gunaah nahi karengi. Ye kitni behayaai kaam he ke larki akeli apne khaawind doondh le. Nikaah ke maamle me larki apne maa baap ke saat mashwarah kare. Maa baap ke mashwarah ke baghair koi kaam ne kare.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada