Q: Maire shaadi nahi ho rahi hai. Ya'ni sowchkar maire baap bahut pareshaan rehete hai. Pata nahi kya hota hai maire shadi ka jab bhi waqt nazdiq aata hai to pata nahi aisa kyu hota hai ladka mana kar deta hai yaa phone par baat karna band kar deta hai. Yaa rista tut jata hai. Mufti saab. Mai kya karu mujhe sajh nahi aata hai mai job karti hu. Bas subha ka waqt milta hai namaz ke liy zayada waqt bhi nahi mil pata hai allaha maaf kare pls bhai aap jo bhi hai maire liy dua kijiyega allaha ab ek ladke se baat chal rahi hai.. out of delhi reheta hai 4 saal se bool raha hai aaunga aaunga shadi karunga lekin abhi tak nahi aaya.. bhai.. beech mai baat hue the.. aa raha hu lekin us time phone hi band kar liya tha. Ab dubara se bool rahe hai aauga aaunga lekin pata nahi ki kab aayega pls bhai aap dua kijiye. Allah paak unhe jaldi bhej de or nikha karke apne saath le jaay. Mai bahut chahti hu unhe pichle 7 saal se allhumdo lillaha vo bhi sunni hai.. pls aap log maire liy allaha se dua kijiyega .... mai kya hua padu jo maire muskil aasaan ho jaaye pls mujhe bataeye.. or allaha par pura yaakin hai allaha sab accha karega.. bahut sabar bhi karti hu pichle & saal se sabar kar rahi hu. Please aap kuch accha bataeyega? Allah behetar kare.
A: Larki ke lia na mahram mard se baat karna jaaiz nahi he. Jab tak nikah na hojaaye, baat karna aur us larke se taalluq rakna jaaiz nahei he. Aap Allah Ta'ala se tawbah kare is gunaah se owr pukhta azam kare ke aap aainda ye gunaah nahi karengi. Ye kitni behayaai kaam he ke larki akeli apne khaawind doondh le. Nikaah ke maamle me larki ku chaahiye ke apne maa baap ke saat mashwarah kare. Maa baap ke mashwarah ke baghair wo koi kaam ne kare.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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