Bachche ki parwarish kis ke zimmedaari he?

Q: Ma na apko pahly btya tha k mary 2 bhai thy unki death hogai and ma parents k sth hi rehti hu.bary bhai ki death k 15 din bd hi bhabi apni ame k ghr chli gai iddat bhi nhi ki.unka bara bata jo 4 saal ka tha ma na adopt krlia tha.bhabi na ek saal bd hi 2nd marriage krli thi or ek month bd hi us sa divorce bhi la li.ab wo her 2-3 month hmary ghar ati hy or 1-2 rat rok k jate hy.uski waja sa jo bata ma na adopt kia hy wo disturbe hora hy.study ma pechy hogya bilawja bat back bat py hasta hy.ab bhabi ko ma na smjhaya k ap ya to mustakil ajao ya phr bacha apny sth la jao ma khrcha pani da du gi.wo dono bato pr razi nhi.mari smjh nhi ata ma kia kru aisy to bacha pagal ho jay ga.ma apny bhai ko kia jwb dugi k ma na kia tarbiat ki bachy ki.ap plz mari rehnumai karyn.

A: Agar bache ki maa kisi ke nikaah me nahi he, to bache ki parwarish ki zimadaari maa ke opar he, daadi par nahi he.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)