Divorced woman getting married without the consent of her wali
Q: Is it possible for a divorced woman aged 40 to do nikaah without the permission of her wali?
Masaail pertaining to the Wali and Compatibility between spouses
Parents approval for a marriage
Q: I have two questions.
I met a guy who I am very in love with and we want to get married as soon as possible. His parents agree, my parents are divorced, and my mother agrees. But he is from a different nationality than I am and I am scared that my father will not accept. I know that this is not an acceptable reason to deny a marriage in Islam, but what are the exact hadeeth or ayat that I can mention in my argument?
My second question is, in the case that my father still wouldn't let me marry him, can I go ahead and marry him anyways given that the reason my father denied him (nationality) is a reason that is unacceptable in Islam?
Marrying against one's parents wishes
Q: I would like to know if your parents give their blessings to a marriage but say their answer is no can I still go ahead and get married and if none of my family members want to stand as witnesses can the guys witness be my witness as well ? I am hanafi
What to look for in a potential suitor
Q: I am really confused. Everyone says that in life you can't focus too much on beauty when it comes to a potential suitor. Then, they say "no. But you have to be attracted to him". But then if I am not attracted to anyone except for a very specific few, then "no, you're being too fussy and need to lower your expectations in life" then when I say okay, how do I lower my expectations? How do I force myself to be attracted to somebody who doesn't really match up to what I had in mind? Then they say "No. don't lower your expectations, expect the best from Allah and have faith that he'll give you what you want" then I say okay fine I expect the best. Then they show me somebody and I can't find it in my heart to have the slightest bit of attraction towards them then they say "if you don't find this person good looking you need to lower your expectations" then I ask how , "no have faith in Allah, you'll get what you want" ... so I don't know what to do. first they say expect from Allah then they say lower your expectations. Which do I do and HOW? It's not as if I'm only focusing on looks, I want piety and looks in a person and I'm not willing to compromise on either. Money is not a main focus but looks and piety are. I have never spoken to any non mahrams much in life so i feel like why should my first relationship ever be with someone that is unappealing to my eye? It's not as if I feel deserving or entitled or think that I'm so holy for not ever engaging in haraam relations but I just think it might be a disappointment to have the one relationship you ever have be with someone you just can't seem to be attracted to. Also. If I read "Rabbana Hablana Min Azwajina Wa Dhhuriyatina Qurata A'yewnew waj Alna Lil mutaqina imaama" will I get someone who I find good looking? Because it's a dua for our spouses to be the coolness of our eyes and he can only be a coolness to my eyes if I am attracted to him right? And I will only be attracted to him if he meets my expectations which means that all I have to do is read this dua and have faith and not lower my expectations right?
Girl looking for her own suitor
Q: I would like to know if a divorcee needs a wali for her second nikah or is it allowed for her to make nikah without a wali or the walis permission?
Father in-law or brother in-law acting as a wakeel in nikaah
Q: Can a girl choose her father in law and her brother in law as wali or wakeel of nikah?
Marrying a Barelwi
Q: A marriage proposal came for my daughter. The boy and his family involve in barelvi practices which we consider baseless, as my family is firm deobandi. In the situation, should I consider this proposal or not? If I refuse it would I be sinful because there is no big issue in the proposal apart from that. Please guide me properly so that it would help further.
Becoming someone's second wife
Q: I am an unmarried girls of 32 yrs age. I am not getting any good match. One person wants to get married to me as his 2nd wife. My mother is denying to do so. What shall I do.
Marrying someone involved in bid'ah practices
Q: My family follow deobandi practices strictly and refrain from all bid'ah but I want to know whether it is allowed to marry my daughter in a family who offer five time salah, are decent but are involved in some bid'ahs practices?
Girl unhappy with the boy her parents have chosen for her
Q: My parents have fixed my marriage in relationship. I said yes because I thought they are happy. But nowadays I don't want to marry that person. Every time it's cry like situation. Now I told my uncle. He has said my sister keep mum. What should I do?