permission

Seeking permission from the first wife for second marriage

Q: I have recently got married last month but our honeymoon was full of eyn (bad eye) and shytan. During the honeymoon my wife would talk and have open conversations with taxi drivers and walk ahead of me and always on her phone and we had a fight where I lightly slapped her on the side of her head. Also she did not allow me to have sex with her for the last 7 days of the honeymoon. She did not respect me and was very rude in the manner she spoke to me in and 2 nights she slept in a different room! She would always be on her phone and not talk to me I told her many times I don't like this but she said I don't care! There have been soooo many issues during this time! She has disrespected me telling me that I do not want your money and take ur presents back!

Before the honeymoon she had asked for divorce 4 times because I contact her too much call and text too much. When she went home she told her family about me slapping her and her family obviously went crazy n want divorce now but it's still debatable!!

So I am now in a situation where there is another lady I loved before this arranged marriage and I wish to marry her. Do I need by islam to confirm with the first wife or should I wait till I'm divorced?? I want to know what to do and what is halal and what is haram. 

Getting married without the permission of one's father

Q: If I have married someone without my father's permission, is it valid? There were people who were present during the marriage but I don't know them. Hanafi mazhab allows it but in Tirmidhi, its against this type of marriage. Why is it? What should I do now if I got married like this without knowing. Should I get married with him again with my father's permission?

Shohar ki ijaazat ke beghair talaaq mu`tabar nahi he

Q: Mera ek dost hey us ki shahdi pakistan me hoi or us ki wife norway me rahti thi hain wo bi pakistani. Lakin norway me rahtey hain phir mera dost bi norway ahya or un ka ek beta bi hey bad me un dono k beach koi masla hova to biwi ney case kar diya or adalt ney fesla diya k ap dono ek sath nei rah saktey to mera dost norway chor k nikel gheya us k bad pichey adalat ney dono ki talak kar diya . Merey dost ney wha rahtey hovey talak nei diya bad me wakel k thoro talak mila mail me. To kya ye talak ho gheya . Merey dost ney koi paper sign nei kiya wo case k doran hi nikel gheya tha. Umaid hey ap ko pori bat samag ahye gi.

Does a widow need her brother's permission to get married?

Q: I was married before and have a son who was born within my marriage and now I am divorced and would like to remarry. However I have no relationship at all with my eldest brother who supposed to be my wakeel, as he does not acknowledge me and he even calls me a Kaafir infront of people. He always insults me infront of others. He does not greet me back when I greet him and he is also someone that had been for hajj and prays 5 times a day. He is my fathers eldest son from his first wife and I am the youngest daughter of the 2nd wife. Both my mother and our father passed on. My question is if I would like to get married, do I need his permission since I have already been married, as I am trying to be the better person but he does not allow me to as I have now decided to keep my distance from him.