Seeing one's spouses private parts
Q: Is it allowed to see one's spouses private parts while having intercourse?
Masaail relating to intimacy
Wife refusing to sleep with husband when he is drunk
Q: I am a revert to Islam for the past five years now so my knowledge is limited. I would just like to know if it is haram or anything the like for a wife to not sleep with her husband in the same bed since he stays out of the house over weekends and doesn't come home. I don't know what he does and who he might be with when he does not come home. Am I transgressing by not sleeping with him?
He also drinks alcohol and does not make salah sometimes. He tells me that it is haram for me to refuse to sleep in the same bed with him. I am very confused and very heart broken.
Husband not satisfying his wife
Q: A women is blessed with a great husband in all aspects. But the only problem is that he doesn't satisfy her in bed. Most of the time when he approaches her, he uses her body to arouse and satisfy himself (without even involving her at all). As a result, the wife is left disappointed and frustrated and that makes her think of her husband as selfish.
The couple have a few months old baby and the wife wants a few months break before trying for the next baby. Is this a valid excuse for him not to satisfy his wife? Is it not obligatory for the husband to please the wife everytime he pleases himself? The wife has tried to tell him politely a few times and he admits this but this is happening over and over again. Please advise.
Intimacy with one's wife during pregnancy and after childbirth
Q: Is it prohibited to have sex during pregnancy?
After child birth, is there a specific time period to avoid sex?
Spouses having intercourse without clothes
Q: Can husband and wife have sex without clothes (fully naked)?
Intimacy with one's wife in front of mirrors
Q: My bedroom has big mirrors on the walls and cupboards. Is it permissible to have intimacy with my wife in front of the mirrors?
When is sexual relations with one's wife prohibited?
Q: Are there any specific days or time of the day where sex is disliked between husband and wife except menstruation days? Few people say eclipse time and so on..
Husband using unnatural ways to satisfy his wife
Q: When a husband has intercourse with his wife and he ejaculated but his wife doesn’t get an orgasm yet. Is it permissible for the husband to use a vibrator by penetrating it in her vagina to satisfy her sexual desires?
Sex toys
Q: May I ask why Muslims have become interested in things like 'sex toys' in marriage? It seems all very strange and weird. What is the cause of this odd interest by Muslims?
I researched this and the manufacture or sale of 'sex toys' was actually prohibited in South Africa by the apartheid government. The ruling was lifted only in 2007 by parliament.
Husband unable to satisfy his wife
Q: My husband cant satisfy me in sex. He did many things to satisfy me but failed. Can I do self sex with my hand and insert anything in my vagina to satisfy myself without telling my husband? If I don't do that maybe I will get involved with someone else.